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Some things are harder to teach than others.

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  • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

    @va2lam @Anke @bucknam

    It's how I start and finish and I thought "everyone knew this" (because I learned to do this when I was so young I can't remember being taught... one might call it "instinct")

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    #31

    @futurebird
    I think I kinda had to figure it out sometime last millennium, but it's been a while. I borrowed a machine for something, so needed a better solution and it transferred.

    This century I'd probably look it up online.

    All I ever needed was a running stich with a few backstitches to start, or just a backstitch, anyway.

    @va2lam @Anke @bucknam

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    • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

      @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

      OK I've tried to draw it.

      Do not overthink the details of these diagrams. Consider the difference between using a knot to hold the thread vs. using friction.

      Friction is often a better, more robust solution. There are many ways to start sewing. Just overlap your stitches, back-stitch a few times until you feel it will not slide out.

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      #32

      @futurebird@sauropods.win @Anke@social.scribblers.club @va2lam@mastodon.nz @bucknam@mastodon.social should've seen this post a few hours ago when i was mending my sweater 😔

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      • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

        Some things are harder to teach than others. One of the most difficult things to explain is "how to start sewing without putting a knot at the end of the thread."

        Like many tasks that I stumble over when teaching I made the fatal mistake of thinking "this is easy"

        I think I need to draw diagrams?

        What makes it worse is it's not that important when you are sewing a book signature how you "knot the thread" since it will be covered in glue later.

        My students want an "Official Procedure"

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        #33

        @futurebird
        Having similar struggles.
        Show & tell: Diagrams help person showing their idea to transmit it visually so observer can build their own mental models.
        I saw your explaining diagram before the words & it totally “made sense” as I had lived experience of “end of string knot failure” mode compared to relying on earth friction physics-https://sauropods.win/@futurebird/115950780276008456
        Had I seen the words first, I’d have interpreted them drawing my own imaginary diagram, that would not likely going to match yours.

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        • annabaguenaude@tenforward.socialA annabaguenaude@tenforward.social

          @futurebird I'd love to learn that. @va2lam @bucknam

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          #34

          @AnnaBaguenaude @va2lam @bucknam

          I made a diagram:

          https://sauropods.win/@futurebird/115950780276008456

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          • dahukanna@mastodon.socialD dahukanna@mastodon.social

            @futurebird
            Having similar struggles.
            Show & tell: Diagrams help person showing their idea to transmit it visually so observer can build their own mental models.
            I saw your explaining diagram before the words & it totally “made sense” as I had lived experience of “end of string knot failure” mode compared to relying on earth friction physics-https://sauropods.win/@futurebird/115950780276008456
            Had I seen the words first, I’d have interpreted them drawing my own imaginary diagram, that would not likely going to match yours.

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            #35

            @dahukanna

            I thought making a diagram was "overkill" but I can see that it's not.

            Lets see if this helps them to be more independent about this part of the project.

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            • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

              @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

              OK I've tried to draw it.

              Do not overthink the details of these diagrams. Consider the difference between using a knot to hold the thread vs. using friction.

              Friction is often a better, more robust solution. There are many ways to start sewing. Just overlap your stitches, back-stitch a few times until you feel it will not slide out.

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              #36

              @futurebird bookmarking this diagram for the future. Very helpful, thanks!

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              • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

                I think this dynamic of people learning a task wanting formal official steps leads to people thinking that there is "One Right Way" to do tasks that can be done in many ways.

                A frustrated teacher formalizes something that just isn't formal to avoid having everyone bugging her over and over "but how do I start it? how do I knot it?"

                Will I cause someone in 20 years to be told "That's the Wrong Way to do it."

                hmmm

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                #37

                @futurebird
                OMG! I was discussing this “one right way” or “where is the template?” Linear thinking, simplistic, “100% certainty” approach.
                A(ny old) way - tends to be the first solution people come up with in solving a problem. Then they stop looking.
                The (most suitable) way - is the optimum way to address a need or problem and requires critical thinking/effort/patience/determination/tenacity/perseverance/grit/adaptability.

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                • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

                  Some things are harder to teach than others. One of the most difficult things to explain is "how to start sewing without putting a knot at the end of the thread."

                  Like many tasks that I stumble over when teaching I made the fatal mistake of thinking "this is easy"

                  I think I need to draw diagrams?

                  What makes it worse is it's not that important when you are sewing a book signature how you "knot the thread" since it will be covered in glue later.

                  My students want an "Official Procedure"

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                  #38

                  @futurebird

                  Does it become "official" when coded in hardware?

                  I still have the tin, but (k)not the machine, from my dad's automatic knotter.

                  He was a textile mechanic and this was in common use in the spinning and weaving sheds.

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                  • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

                    @AnnaBaguenaude @va2lam @bucknam

                    I made a diagram:

                    https://sauropods.win/@futurebird/115950780276008456

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                    #39

                    @futurebird thank you, it's perfect! I'll try it soon. @va2lam @bucknam

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                    • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

                      @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

                      OK I've tried to draw it.

                      Do not overthink the details of these diagrams. Consider the difference between using a knot to hold the thread vs. using friction.

                      Friction is often a better, more robust solution. There are many ways to start sewing. Just overlap your stitches, back-stitch a few times until you feel it will not slide out.

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                      #40

                      @futurebird @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

                      When I was four, I learned both methods, but the second was much easier if I started with the first. The knot helped hold the thread in place for the first few stitches. When you are just learning, it’s very easy to accidentally pull the thread through when you go back, the knot stops that happening.

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                      • anke@social.scribblers.clubA anke@social.scribblers.club

                        @futurebird @va2lam @bucknam
                        My grandmother taught me how to weave in ends on the back of the work when doing embroidery, but no-one ever taught me to sew. Wishing I had known to ask now.

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                        #41

                        @Anke @futurebird @va2lam @bucknam nothing stopping you from starting now. sometime last year i started getting into fixing the fabric things around the house and it takes time but isn't very intimidating

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                        • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

                          @dahukanna

                          I thought making a diagram was "overkill" but I can see that it's not.

                          Lets see if this helps them to be more independent about this part of the project.

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                          #42

                          @futurebird

                          It’s not just kids. I’ve seen grown adults, paid a salary to come up with solutions to problems, also asking,
                          - “keep it simple and tell me the “one right answer”!
                          - “Give me the answer and don’t make me work for it”.
                          - “I don’t want to make an(y) effort. Give me the answer”.

                          It is a kind of “cognitive abdication”, “don’t make me think” or learned/programmed helplessness.

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                          • david_chisnall@infosec.exchangeD david_chisnall@infosec.exchange

                            @futurebird @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

                            When I was four, I learned both methods, but the second was much easier if I started with the first. The knot helped hold the thread in place for the first few stitches. When you are just learning, it’s very easy to accidentally pull the thread through when you go back, the knot stops that happening.

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                            #43

                            @david_chisnall @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

                            This makes sense, though if that knot is taking a lot of tension because the person learning to sew is pulling too hard it's going to cause further problems. Learning to manage the tension is a big part of sewing. So the thread is taught... but not pulling on the fabric or paper much.

                            It's one of the reasons I like sewing books with them. Too much tension will tear the paper. Instant feedback.

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                            • dahukanna@mastodon.socialD dahukanna@mastodon.social

                              @futurebird

                              It’s not just kids. I’ve seen grown adults, paid a salary to come up with solutions to problems, also asking,
                              - “keep it simple and tell me the “one right answer”!
                              - “Give me the answer and don’t make me work for it”.
                              - “I don’t want to make an(y) effort. Give me the answer”.

                              It is a kind of “cognitive abdication”, “don’t make me think” or learned/programmed helplessness.

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                              #44

                              @dahukanna

                              I will help someone who is overwhelmed if we are just trying to get a task done. But when I'm teaching?

                              Well I'm not teaching anything if students don't confront this.

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                              • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

                                @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

                                OK I've tried to draw it.

                                Do not overthink the details of these diagrams. Consider the difference between using a knot to hold the thread vs. using friction.

                                Friction is often a better, more robust solution. There are many ways to start sewing. Just overlap your stitches, back-stitch a few times until you feel it will not slide out.

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                                #45

                                @futurebird @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

                                So lovely.

                                Sewing is an alien art for me, I envy you. I won't start now, but I see this as a wonderful Taoist case study!

                                Let the material decide how it wants to be treated. The knot is my external will, clumsily imposed on the thread; the friction loop is the inner nature of the thread, gracefully doing what it does, skillfully aligned with my needs.

                                I love the drawing too!

                                #Tao #Zhuangzi

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                                • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

                                  @david_chisnall @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

                                  This makes sense, though if that knot is taking a lot of tension because the person learning to sew is pulling too hard it's going to cause further problems. Learning to manage the tension is a big part of sewing. So the thread is taught... but not pulling on the fabric or paper much.

                                  It's one of the reasons I like sewing books with them. Too much tension will tear the paper. Instant feedback.

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                                  #46

                                  @futurebird

                                  My grannie taught me sewing, knitting and embroidery.

                                  Yet here I am, learning more, 63 years later.

                                  @david_chisnall @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

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                                  • anke@social.scribblers.clubA anke@social.scribblers.club

                                    @futurebird @va2lam @bucknam
                                    My grandmother taught me how to weave in ends on the back of the work when doing embroidery, but no-one ever taught me to sew. Wishing I had known to ask now.

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                                    #47

                                    @Anke @futurebird @va2lam @bucknam
                                    I started with embroidery when I was very young, too. Would sew everything in backstitch. Very secure.

                                    Actually, I still backstitch most of the time.

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                                    • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

                                      @dahukanna

                                      I will help someone who is overwhelmed if we are just trying to get a task done. But when I'm teaching?

                                      Well I'm not teaching anything if students don't confront this.

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                                      #48

                                      @futurebird I agree that independent learning and being prepared to make some effort navigating through trial and error but people behave like making any cognitive effort I.e. learning “by trail and error” is “an affront” to their personage.

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                                      • the_roamer@mastodonapp.ukT the_roamer@mastodonapp.uk

                                        @futurebird @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

                                        So lovely.

                                        Sewing is an alien art for me, I envy you. I won't start now, but I see this as a wonderful Taoist case study!

                                        Let the material decide how it wants to be treated. The knot is my external will, clumsily imposed on the thread; the friction loop is the inner nature of the thread, gracefully doing what it does, skillfully aligned with my needs.

                                        I love the drawing too!

                                        #Tao #Zhuangzi

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                                        #49

                                        @the_roamer @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

                                        Sewing is weaving with just one thread at a time and a tiny little shuttle.

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                                        • sollat@masto.aiS sollat@masto.ai

                                          @Anke @futurebird @va2lam @bucknam
                                          I started with embroidery when I was very young, too. Would sew everything in backstitch. Very secure.

                                          Actually, I still backstitch most of the time.

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                                          #50

                                          @sollat @anke @futurebird @va2lam @bucknam Every stitch is a "knot"!

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