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Some things are harder to teach than others.

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  • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

    I think this dynamic of people learning a task wanting formal official steps leads to people thinking that there is "One Right Way" to do tasks that can be done in many ways.

    A frustrated teacher formalizes something that just isn't formal to avoid having everyone bugging her over and over "but how do I start it? how do I knot it?"

    Will I cause someone in 20 years to be told "That's the Wrong Way to do it."

    hmmm

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    @futurebird I have a new-hire mentee that I keep having the same conversation with

    him: should I do it by X?
    me: sure. Y is also fine.
    him: I don't understand

    I mean....yeah, that's clear and is also the problem. I'm not going to micromanage your keystroke by keystroke.

    **I need you to understand the task.**

    Only then will "instructions" make sense.

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    • anke@social.scribblers.clubA anke@social.scribblers.club

      @futurebird @va2lam @bucknam
      I would really like a diagram of a way to do that...

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      #14

      @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

      OK I've tried to draw it.

      Do not overthink the details of these diagrams. Consider the difference between using a knot to hold the thread vs. using friction.

      Friction is often a better, more robust solution. There are many ways to start sewing. Just overlap your stitches, back-stitch a few times until you feel it will not slide out.

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      • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

        @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

        OK I've tried to draw it.

        Do not overthink the details of these diagrams. Consider the difference between using a knot to hold the thread vs. using friction.

        Friction is often a better, more robust solution. There are many ways to start sewing. Just overlap your stitches, back-stitch a few times until you feel it will not slide out.

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        #15

        @futurebird @Anke @bucknam that's sort of how I finish sewing!

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        • va2lam@mastodon.nzV va2lam@mastodon.nz

          @futurebird @Anke @bucknam that's sort of how I finish sewing!

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          #16

          @va2lam @Anke @bucknam

          It's how I start and finish and I thought "everyone knew this" (because I learned to do this when I was so young I can't remember being taught... one might call it "instinct")

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          • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

            @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

            OK I've tried to draw it.

            Do not overthink the details of these diagrams. Consider the difference between using a knot to hold the thread vs. using friction.

            Friction is often a better, more robust solution. There are many ways to start sewing. Just overlap your stitches, back-stitch a few times until you feel it will not slide out.

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            #17

            @futurebird Thank you!

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            • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

              @va2lam @Anke @bucknam

              It's how I start and finish and I thought "everyone knew this" (because I learned to do this when I was so young I can't remember being taught... one might call it "instinct")

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              #18

              @futurebird @Anke @bucknam I was definitely taught, by a teacher maybe?

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              • va2lam@mastodon.nzV va2lam@mastodon.nz

                @futurebird @Anke @bucknam I was definitely taught, by a teacher maybe?

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                #19

                @va2lam @Anke @bucknam

                My mom or grandmother taught me. But I was like 3. I have no memory of it.

                It's really hard to teach things that you don't remember needing to learn. But it can be done!

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                • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

                  I think this dynamic of people learning a task wanting formal official steps leads to people thinking that there is "One Right Way" to do tasks that can be done in many ways.

                  A frustrated teacher formalizes something that just isn't formal to avoid having everyone bugging her over and over "but how do I start it? how do I knot it?"

                  Will I cause someone in 20 years to be told "That's the Wrong Way to do it."

                  hmmm

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                  #20

                  @futurebird

                  you'll do a lot better than the Ontario education system did when i was in it. they teach that there is only One Way, and if you do things Some Other Way, you will be punished for it.

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                  • davidr@hachyderm.ioD davidr@hachyderm.io

                    @futurebird I have a new-hire mentee that I keep having the same conversation with

                    him: should I do it by X?
                    me: sure. Y is also fine.
                    him: I don't understand

                    I mean....yeah, that's clear and is also the problem. I'm not going to micromanage your keystroke by keystroke.

                    **I need you to understand the task.**

                    Only then will "instructions" make sense.

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                    #21

                    @davidr @futurebird

                    Yeah. Me, last night:

                    https://social.treehouse.systems/@angelastella/115948102123939180

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                    • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

                      @va2lam @Anke @bucknam

                      My mom or grandmother taught me. But I was like 3. I have no memory of it.

                      It's really hard to teach things that you don't remember needing to learn. But it can be done!

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                      #22

                      @futurebird @va2lam @bucknam
                      My grandmother taught me how to weave in ends on the back of the work when doing embroidery, but no-one ever taught me to sew. Wishing I had known to ask now.

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                      • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

                        @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

                        OK I've tried to draw it.

                        Do not overthink the details of these diagrams. Consider the difference between using a knot to hold the thread vs. using friction.

                        Friction is often a better, more robust solution. There are many ways to start sewing. Just overlap your stitches, back-stitch a few times until you feel it will not slide out.

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                        #23
                        @futurebird @Anke @va2lam @bucknam the cheap and quick sewing machine way of doing this is going back and forth at the start and the finish. (If you want to do it properly, go slow and possibly use the hand turn instead of pedal. If you want to be me, use the pedal and watch it all go haywire...)

                        It's much easier to do this nicely while handsewing
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                        • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

                          @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

                          OK I've tried to draw it.

                          Do not overthink the details of these diagrams. Consider the difference between using a knot to hold the thread vs. using friction.

                          Friction is often a better, more robust solution. There are many ways to start sewing. Just overlap your stitches, back-stitch a few times until you feel it will not slide out.

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                          #24

                          @futurebird @Anke @va2lam @bucknam i do the second one but i usually tie one knot. sometimes it starts to slide but it definitely works

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                          • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

                            @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

                            OK I've tried to draw it.

                            Do not overthink the details of these diagrams. Consider the difference between using a knot to hold the thread vs. using friction.

                            Friction is often a better, more robust solution. There are many ways to start sewing. Just overlap your stitches, back-stitch a few times until you feel it will not slide out.

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                            #25

                            @futurebird
                            and on a machine generally you sew forward a few stitches and then backward over them and then go... same at the end, reverse over the ending... i feel like thats probably taught more explicitly than hand stitching these days. like if you found a machine sewing beginners guide book theyd have it in there explicitly
                            @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

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                            • dlakelan@mastodon.sdf.orgD dlakelan@mastodon.sdf.org

                              @futurebird
                              and on a machine generally you sew forward a few stitches and then backward over them and then go... same at the end, reverse over the ending... i feel like thats probably taught more explicitly than hand stitching these days. like if you found a machine sewing beginners guide book theyd have it in there explicitly
                              @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

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                              #26

                              @dlakelan @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

                              We are making books so hand stitching is the way for us.

                              Many of my students have never threaded a needle. (I show them how to use a needle threader which is a topology puzzle for a few.)

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                              • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

                                @va2lam @Anke @bucknam

                                It's how I start and finish and I thought "everyone knew this" (because I learned to do this when I was so young I can't remember being taught... one might call it "instinct")

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                                #27

                                @futurebird @va2lam @Anke @bucknam yeah I was def taught with a knot, and later learned to end that way, but never thought to start that way too
                                Great to know, and great visual 🙂

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                                • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

                                  @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

                                  OK I've tried to draw it.

                                  Do not overthink the details of these diagrams. Consider the difference between using a knot to hold the thread vs. using friction.

                                  Friction is often a better, more robust solution. There are many ways to start sewing. Just overlap your stitches, back-stitch a few times until you feel it will not slide out.

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                                  #28

                                  @futurebird @Anke @va2lam @bucknam I mean, knots are just friction made small, right?

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                                  • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

                                    @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

                                    OK I've tried to draw it.

                                    Do not overthink the details of these diagrams. Consider the difference between using a knot to hold the thread vs. using friction.

                                    Friction is often a better, more robust solution. There are many ways to start sewing. Just overlap your stitches, back-stitch a few times until you feel it will not slide out.

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                                    #29

                                    @futurebird @Anke @va2lam @bucknam Why not both?

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                                    • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

                                      @dlakelan @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

                                      We are making books so hand stitching is the way for us.

                                      Many of my students have never threaded a needle. (I show them how to use a needle threader which is a topology puzzle for a few.)

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                                      #30

                                      @futurebird
                                      yeah makes sense, I just mean that this knowledge of how to start or stop sewing using friction is more likely to be taught today in terms of a machine. the idea extends easily to hand sewing, but probably your students dont know machine sewing either.
                                      @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

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                                      • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

                                        @va2lam @Anke @bucknam

                                        It's how I start and finish and I thought "everyone knew this" (because I learned to do this when I was so young I can't remember being taught... one might call it "instinct")

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                                        #31

                                        @futurebird
                                        I think I kinda had to figure it out sometime last millennium, but it's been a while. I borrowed a machine for something, so needed a better solution and it transferred.

                                        This century I'd probably look it up online.

                                        All I ever needed was a running stich with a few backstitches to start, or just a backstitch, anyway.

                                        @va2lam @Anke @bucknam

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                                        • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

                                          @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

                                          OK I've tried to draw it.

                                          Do not overthink the details of these diagrams. Consider the difference between using a knot to hold the thread vs. using friction.

                                          Friction is often a better, more robust solution. There are many ways to start sewing. Just overlap your stitches, back-stitch a few times until you feel it will not slide out.

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                                          #32

                                          @futurebird@sauropods.win @Anke@social.scribblers.club @va2lam@mastodon.nz @bucknam@mastodon.social should've seen this post a few hours ago when i was mending my sweater 😔

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