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Some things are harder to teach than others.

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  • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

    @AnnaBaguenaude @va2lam @bucknam

    I made a diagram:

    https://sauropods.win/@futurebird/115950780276008456

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    #39

    @futurebird thank you, it's perfect! I'll try it soon. @va2lam @bucknam

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    • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

      @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

      OK I've tried to draw it.

      Do not overthink the details of these diagrams. Consider the difference between using a knot to hold the thread vs. using friction.

      Friction is often a better, more robust solution. There are many ways to start sewing. Just overlap your stitches, back-stitch a few times until you feel it will not slide out.

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      #40

      @futurebird @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

      When I was four, I learned both methods, but the second was much easier if I started with the first. The knot helped hold the thread in place for the first few stitches. When you are just learning, it’s very easy to accidentally pull the thread through when you go back, the knot stops that happening.

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      • anke@social.scribblers.clubA anke@social.scribblers.club

        @futurebird @va2lam @bucknam
        My grandmother taught me how to weave in ends on the back of the work when doing embroidery, but no-one ever taught me to sew. Wishing I had known to ask now.

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        #41

        @Anke @futurebird @va2lam @bucknam nothing stopping you from starting now. sometime last year i started getting into fixing the fabric things around the house and it takes time but isn't very intimidating

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        • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

          @dahukanna

          I thought making a diagram was "overkill" but I can see that it's not.

          Lets see if this helps them to be more independent about this part of the project.

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          #42

          @futurebird

          It’s not just kids. I’ve seen grown adults, paid a salary to come up with solutions to problems, also asking,
          - “keep it simple and tell me the “one right answer”!
          - “Give me the answer and don’t make me work for it”.
          - “I don’t want to make an(y) effort. Give me the answer”.

          It is a kind of “cognitive abdication”, “don’t make me think” or learned/programmed helplessness.

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          • david_chisnall@infosec.exchangeD david_chisnall@infosec.exchange

            @futurebird @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

            When I was four, I learned both methods, but the second was much easier if I started with the first. The knot helped hold the thread in place for the first few stitches. When you are just learning, it’s very easy to accidentally pull the thread through when you go back, the knot stops that happening.

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            #43

            @david_chisnall @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

            This makes sense, though if that knot is taking a lot of tension because the person learning to sew is pulling too hard it's going to cause further problems. Learning to manage the tension is a big part of sewing. So the thread is taught... but not pulling on the fabric or paper much.

            It's one of the reasons I like sewing books with them. Too much tension will tear the paper. Instant feedback.

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            • dahukanna@mastodon.socialD dahukanna@mastodon.social

              @futurebird

              It’s not just kids. I’ve seen grown adults, paid a salary to come up with solutions to problems, also asking,
              - “keep it simple and tell me the “one right answer”!
              - “Give me the answer and don’t make me work for it”.
              - “I don’t want to make an(y) effort. Give me the answer”.

              It is a kind of “cognitive abdication”, “don’t make me think” or learned/programmed helplessness.

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              #44

              @dahukanna

              I will help someone who is overwhelmed if we are just trying to get a task done. But when I'm teaching?

              Well I'm not teaching anything if students don't confront this.

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              • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

                @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

                OK I've tried to draw it.

                Do not overthink the details of these diagrams. Consider the difference between using a knot to hold the thread vs. using friction.

                Friction is often a better, more robust solution. There are many ways to start sewing. Just overlap your stitches, back-stitch a few times until you feel it will not slide out.

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                #45

                @futurebird @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

                So lovely.

                Sewing is an alien art for me, I envy you. I won't start now, but I see this as a wonderful Taoist case study!

                Let the material decide how it wants to be treated. The knot is my external will, clumsily imposed on the thread; the friction loop is the inner nature of the thread, gracefully doing what it does, skillfully aligned with my needs.

                I love the drawing too!

                #Tao #Zhuangzi

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                • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

                  @david_chisnall @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

                  This makes sense, though if that knot is taking a lot of tension because the person learning to sew is pulling too hard it's going to cause further problems. Learning to manage the tension is a big part of sewing. So the thread is taught... but not pulling on the fabric or paper much.

                  It's one of the reasons I like sewing books with them. Too much tension will tear the paper. Instant feedback.

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                  #46

                  @futurebird

                  My grannie taught me sewing, knitting and embroidery.

                  Yet here I am, learning more, 63 years later.

                  @david_chisnall @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

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                  • anke@social.scribblers.clubA anke@social.scribblers.club

                    @futurebird @va2lam @bucknam
                    My grandmother taught me how to weave in ends on the back of the work when doing embroidery, but no-one ever taught me to sew. Wishing I had known to ask now.

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                    #47

                    @Anke @futurebird @va2lam @bucknam
                    I started with embroidery when I was very young, too. Would sew everything in backstitch. Very secure.

                    Actually, I still backstitch most of the time.

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                    • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

                      @dahukanna

                      I will help someone who is overwhelmed if we are just trying to get a task done. But when I'm teaching?

                      Well I'm not teaching anything if students don't confront this.

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                      #48

                      @futurebird I agree that independent learning and being prepared to make some effort navigating through trial and error but people behave like making any cognitive effort I.e. learning “by trail and error” is “an affront” to their personage.

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                      • the_roamer@mastodonapp.ukT the_roamer@mastodonapp.uk

                        @futurebird @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

                        So lovely.

                        Sewing is an alien art for me, I envy you. I won't start now, but I see this as a wonderful Taoist case study!

                        Let the material decide how it wants to be treated. The knot is my external will, clumsily imposed on the thread; the friction loop is the inner nature of the thread, gracefully doing what it does, skillfully aligned with my needs.

                        I love the drawing too!

                        #Tao #Zhuangzi

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                        #49

                        @the_roamer @Anke @va2lam @bucknam

                        Sewing is weaving with just one thread at a time and a tiny little shuttle.

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                        • sollat@masto.aiS sollat@masto.ai

                          @Anke @futurebird @va2lam @bucknam
                          I started with embroidery when I was very young, too. Would sew everything in backstitch. Very secure.

                          Actually, I still backstitch most of the time.

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                          #50

                          @sollat @anke @futurebird @va2lam @bucknam Every stitch is a "knot"!

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