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  • energetic_nova@mastodon.socialE energetic_nova@mastodon.social

    @FediTips @e_t_wright @roknrol

    This place is full of people who want me dead and I know it because they oppose democrats.

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    #41

    @Energetic_Nova @FediTips @e_t_wright @roknrol I am left, and have only ever voted for Democrats, but your statement is bigotry. Casting aside anyone who doesn’t agree with Democrats is the definition of bigotry to a T. @FediTips your heart is in the right place, but I fear your solution only leads to more problems and misuse for political warfare.

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    • destructodisk@mastodon.socialD This user is from outside of this forum
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      #42

      @imbl @FediTips This was one of the flaws I was mentioning @FediTips There is nothing from stopping those people from using the system you have envisioned against you and abusing it. Especially as you say these people are able to gather large followings and get them to believe lies. So nothing is stopping them from lying and using the controls you want.

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      • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF This user is from outside of this forum
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        #43

        @imbl

        As far as I know I haven't suggested any specific blocklists, I've suggested people go to Oliphant's list of blocklists and see which of those lists is a fit for their server.

        Are you saying Oliphant is problematic or have I misunderstood?

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        • destructodisk@mastodon.socialD destructodisk@mastodon.social

          @imbl @FediTips This was one of the flaws I was mentioning @FediTips There is nothing from stopping those people from using the system you have envisioned against you and abusing it. Especially as you say these people are able to gather large followings and get them to believe lies. So nothing is stopping them from lying and using the controls you want.

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          #44

          @DestructoDisk @imbl

          There ARE things stopping people from abusing the system, for example many of the blocklists have voting systems to prevent an individual adding stuff maliciously.

          None of these methods are perfect, but it would be even worse to have no blocklist at all.

          That's why I suggest admins look at the blocklists and their methodologies and choose the list(s) they feel are best and most reliable.

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          • itzpingcat@sakurajima.moeI itzpingcat@sakurajima.moe

            @FediTips @e_t_wright
            What if it’s on Nostr, but I can’t defederate from Nostr.

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            #45

            @itzpingcat

            AFAIK Nostr isn't part of the Fediverse. If there's a bridge, you can defederate the bridge.

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            • orb2069@mastodon.onlineO orb2069@mastodon.online

              @tauon @klefstadmyr @FediTips

              Then report that 'nah' to your admin.

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              #46

              @Orb2069 @tauon @klefstadmyr

              Yup, if a server hosts a bigot and knows what they're up to but refuses to remove their account, the next step is to tell your own admin about this so they can consider defederating the rogue server.

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              • ahltorp@mastodon.nuA ahltorp@mastodon.nu

                @djwfyi @FediTips It’s also the case that if someone writes something abusive and blocks you directly afterwards, you can’t reply to that, but no one reading it knows that you can’t reply.

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                #47

                @ahltorp @djwfyi

                It's another reason why it's important to report bigotry and abuse even when it doesn't involve you directly, because the abuser may be hiding it from the victim.

                (And of course people should be reporting abuse anyway as an act of solidarity.)

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                • tauon@possum.cityT tauon@possum.city

                  @klefstadmyr@vivaldi.net @FediTips@social.growyourown.services what if they just say 'nah' though

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                  #48

                  @tauon @FediTips It wasn't a suggestion, it was a question.

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                  • cappyjax@mastodon.socialC cappyjax@mastodon.social

                    @Miname @FediTips Trusting people to distinguish fact from fiction is what put Trump in power

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                    #49

                    @Cappyjax @FediTips so you basically are questioning the ability of critical thinking of the majority of your people? If so, trying to solve the initial problem with a maybe technical approach, would be fighting the symptoms instead of the root cause. Because the problem is then, that people more or less solely decide based on trust. Why they do that must be researched like maybe lack of education, the design of social media, cultural background, etc.

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                    • energetic_nova@mastodon.socialE energetic_nova@mastodon.social

                      @project1enigma @tauon @FediTips

                      This happened to me as well

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                      #50

                      @Energetic_Nova @tauon @FediTips

                      That's not good. Regrets.

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                      • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

                        @Orb2069 @tauon @klefstadmyr

                        Yup, if a server hosts a bigot and knows what they're up to but refuses to remove their account, the next step is to tell your own admin about this so they can consider defederating the rogue server.

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                        #51

                        @FediTips @Orb2069 @tauon @klefstadmyr

                        Nice theory. "Don't tell us how to do moderation."

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                        • energetic_nova@mastodon.socialE energetic_nova@mastodon.social

                          @FediTips @e_t_wright @roknrol

                          This place is full of people who want me dead and I know it because they oppose democrats.

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                          #52

                          @Energetic_Nova @FediTips @e_t_wright @roknrol that's just horrible!

                          You are aware that there are many better moderated instances around? Mastodon.social has a pretty bad name, it's just too big to block for most servers. It's definitely worth looking around, if you're not doing that already.

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                          • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

                            Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

                            What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

                            What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

                            This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

                            "Just block them" doesn't work.

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                            #53

                            @FediTips, the main thing is not to turn out to be a bigot yourself, a bigot who blocks people simply for dissent. And it is important to remember that the main threat to the free Internet and freedom in general is not misguided people, but monopolies and the politicians who serve them.

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                            • mees@sunny.gardenM mees@sunny.garden

                              @Energetic_Nova @FediTips @e_t_wright @roknrol that's just horrible!

                              You are aware that there are many better moderated instances around? Mastodon.social has a pretty bad name, it's just too big to block for most servers. It's definitely worth looking around, if you're not doing that already.

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                              #54

                              @mees @FediTips @e_t_wright @roknrol

                              They said I was insulting people when I told them I hated them… but they called me illiterate. Which was an intelligence based insult… I dont think telling people you hate them for ruining their life is “insulting”. I think that is something else entirely. Its an emotion which I expressed. Which is not an insult. Its a feeling….

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                              • tirf@mastodon.mlT tirf@mastodon.ml

                                @FediTips, the main thing is not to turn out to be a bigot yourself, a bigot who blocks people simply for dissent. And it is important to remember that the main threat to the free Internet and freedom in general is not misguided people, but monopolies and the politicians who serve them.

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                                #55

                                @tirf @FediTips

                                All too often bigots hide their bigotry as "dissent". "I'm not a bigot, I just have a different opinion about the right of disabled people to live a life in dignity." And then they DARVO if they are blocked or reported or called out.

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                                • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

                                  Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

                                  What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

                                  What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

                                  This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

                                  "Just block them" doesn't work.

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                                  #56

                                  @FediTips

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                                  • itzpingcat@sakurajima.moeI itzpingcat@sakurajima.moe

                                    @FediTips @e_t_wright
                                    What if it’s on Nostr, but I can’t defederate from Nostr.

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                                    @itzpingcat@sakurajima.moe why can't you defederate nostr? /Genq

                                    We were able to block them by defederating all the bridges, and that's worked perfectly ever since.

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                                    • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

                                      Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

                                      What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

                                      What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

                                      This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

                                      "Just block them" doesn't work.

                                      martinaneumayer@mastodon.socialM This user is from outside of this forum
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                                      #58

                                      @FediTips Yeap.. Happened to me too. Not on Fediverse but still and doesn't change the fact that I got at first harassed and verbally molested online and later in the real life brutally attacked and beaten by same a-holes. And all because the people who were obliged to react (admins and moderators of an well known, "reputable" IT forum) did not do so and, through their ignorance, allowed the escalation. What's more, they even tried to sweep the case under the carpet and delete the evidences.

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                                      • haui@mastodon.giftedmc.comH haui@mastodon.giftedmc.com

                                        @alex
                                        Bluesky as in the next oppressive and corrupt police state (because they apparently have centralized moderation).

                                        It wasnt a sincere suggestion but an explanation of why oppressing your fellow people does not work but the conditions need to change. As in bluesky is what happens when you try to solve an issue with more instead of less oppression.

                                        As I said, fanon wrote about this. Alexandra Kollontai did too in "the social basis of the woman question"
                                        @FediTips

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                                        #59

                                        @haui

                                        The usual dilemma. Instead of addressing the criticism of the Fediverse, which has been described very well here, some people prefer to write "Bluesky is stupid." The uncomfortable truth is that the accounts that were kicked off Bluesky for anti-Semitism have found a good home in the Fediverse and are still being courted here.

                                        @alex @FediTips

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                                        • zotheca@mementomori.socialZ zotheca@mementomori.social

                                          @haui

                                          The usual dilemma. Instead of addressing the criticism of the Fediverse, which has been described very well here, some people prefer to write "Bluesky is stupid." The uncomfortable truth is that the accounts that were kicked off Bluesky for anti-Semitism have found a good home in the Fediverse and are still being courted here.

                                          @alex @FediTips

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                                          #60

                                          @zotheca
                                          Yikes. Theres a lot to unpack here.

                                          First of all, nice strawman! You definitely know that your fake criticism does not adress anything that was written and only tries to trigger people.

                                          Second, mixing antisemitism allegations in a discussion is no red flag AT ALL, right?

                                          I suggest you walk along. I dont think we have anything constructive to discuss.
                                          @alex @FediTips

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