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It always makes me sad when another fedi user - and, in my experience, it is always a woman - says that they feel unsafe posting here, because of replies they get.

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  • tknarr@mstdn.socialT tknarr@mstdn.social

    @neil I'm still looking at what's involved in creating subscribeable blocklists. The basic hook into the block functionality on the server is obvious enough, but the list itself involves learning everything about the ActivityPub protocol and the federation and syndication models. Making it useful involves having categorization and user ratings while preventing abuse of them too. Straightforward in concept, terminally hirsute in implementation.

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    #47

    @tknarr @neil this idea is not new to the fediverse. Multiple major efforts have occurred and then faded away after being hijacked for personal vendettas.

    The problem is it's a social issue more than a technological one.

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    • mlanger@mastodon.worldM mlanger@mastodon.world

      @neil @evdelen Yeah, but if they can't see it, they can't reply to it. I think it's a viable option for posts you don't want just anyone to see and reply to. I use it occasionally when I'm posting stuff of a more personal nature that isn't exactly private.

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      #48

      @mlanger @evdelen

      Great!

      It is certainly *a* control here.

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      • hunterz@mastodon.sdf.orgH hunterz@mastodon.sdf.org

        @tknarr @neil this idea is not new to the fediverse. Multiple major efforts have occurred and then faded away after being hijacked for personal vendettas.

        The problem is it's a social issue more than a technological one.

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        #49

        @HunterZ @neil Subscribeable blocklists are a technical issue, and I can state a number of good use cases for them.

        Abuse of a blocklist by it's creator (misleading subscribers about criteria, doing a bait-and-switch after getting a subscriber base) is completely separate, and yes _that's_ a social issue. Hence my concern for categorization and ratings, and ways to prevent those from being abused to give a list a false reputation.

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        • tknarr@mstdn.socialT tknarr@mstdn.social

          @HunterZ @neil Subscribeable blocklists are a technical issue, and I can state a number of good use cases for them.

          Abuse of a blocklist by it's creator (misleading subscribers about criteria, doing a bait-and-switch after getting a subscriber base) is completely separate, and yes _that's_ a social issue. Hence my concern for categorization and ratings, and ways to prevent those from being abused to give a list a false reputation.

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          #50

          @HunterZ @neil Email RBLs and browser ad blockers are vulnerable to the same abuses. If we adopted your policy, both would be abandoned. Nobody's stupid enough to propose that, though.

          ... OK, Google is stupid enough to propose doing away with ad blockers, but look how well that idea was received.

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          • tknarr@mstdn.socialT tknarr@mstdn.social

            @HunterZ @neil Subscribeable blocklists are a technical issue, and I can state a number of good use cases for them.

            Abuse of a blocklist by it's creator (misleading subscribers about criteria, doing a bait-and-switch after getting a subscriber base) is completely separate, and yes _that's_ a social issue. Hence my concern for categorization and ratings, and ways to prevent those from being abused to give a list a false reputation.

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            #51

            @tknarr @neil I'm saying that the implementation of them becomes overwhelmingly a social issue. It's already been tried and failed multiple times at the instance level because of abuse. All it takes is collusion among a group of bad actors to pump up ratings etc.

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            • hunterz@mastodon.sdf.orgH hunterz@mastodon.sdf.org

              @tknarr @neil I'm saying that the implementation of them becomes overwhelmingly a social issue. It's already been tried and failed multiple times at the instance level because of abuse. All it takes is collusion among a group of bad actors to pump up ratings etc.

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              #52

              @HunterZ @neil Did I say anything about it being at the instance level? No, I did not.

              The use cases all involve decisions by individual users about which blocklists to subscribe to. It certainly _could_ be used by an instance admin, but we already give them that power by allowing instance-level blocking in the first place. The social issue there isn't subscribeable blocklilsts, it's having an instance admin you can't trust not to block people inappropriately by whatever mechanism.

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              • neil@mastodon.neilzone.co.ukN neil@mastodon.neilzone.co.uk

                It always makes me sad when another fedi user - and, in my experience, it is always a woman - says that they feel unsafe posting here, because of replies they get.

                Control over who can reply to a toot would be amazing, as a way to improve this without them needing to mute or block post-harm.

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                #53

                @neil remember when Mastodon asked for changes to be made to the interaction policies FEP specifically so they can opt out of implementing reply and boost control?
                i remember.

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                • tknarr@mstdn.socialT tknarr@mstdn.social

                  @neil I'm still looking at what's involved in creating subscribeable blocklists. The basic hook into the block functionality on the server is obvious enough, but the list itself involves learning everything about the ActivityPub protocol and the federation and syndication models. Making it useful involves having categorization and user ratings while preventing abuse of them too. Straightforward in concept, terminally hirsute in implementation.

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                  #54

                  @tknarr @neil btw. that visibility setting is doing something very non-obvious, namely it's always interpreted per-message, which makes the actual thread audience completely unpredictable.

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                  • electricfusionq@muenchen.socialE electricfusionq@muenchen.social

                    @neil Can you in RL control who`s replying to words you said?

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                    #55

                    @electricfusionQ @neil this is real life too, mon.

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                    • neil@mastodon.neilzone.co.ukN neil@mastodon.neilzone.co.uk

                      It always makes me sad when another fedi user - and, in my experience, it is always a woman - says that they feel unsafe posting here, because of replies they get.

                      Control over who can reply to a toot would be amazing, as a way to improve this without them needing to mute or block post-harm.

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                      #56

                      @neil @mawhrin I saw it on Bluesky, and it seems to do the job.

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                      • neil@mastodon.neilzone.co.ukN neil@mastodon.neilzone.co.uk

                        It always makes me sad when another fedi user - and, in my experience, it is always a woman - says that they feel unsafe posting here, because of replies they get.

                        Control over who can reply to a toot would be amazing, as a way to improve this without them needing to mute or block post-harm.

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                        #57

                        @neil ultimately, fedi's culture of men constantly centering themselves, reply-guying, being weird and condescending and creepy to women and fems, and so forth, is a social-cultural problem. and while better tools can help to shield us from the worst of it, you can't solve a social problem with technical solutions. in other words, it's the culture of misogyny that needs to change, or nothing will fundamentally change.

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                        • neil@mastodon.neilzone.co.ukN neil@mastodon.neilzone.co.uk

                          It always makes me sad when another fedi user - and, in my experience, it is always a woman - says that they feel unsafe posting here, because of replies they get.

                          Control over who can reply to a toot would be amazing, as a way to improve this without them needing to mute or block post-harm.

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                          #58

                          @neil Women. Black people. Jews...

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                          • neil@mastodon.neilzone.co.ukN neil@mastodon.neilzone.co.uk

                            It always makes me sad when another fedi user - and, in my experience, it is always a woman - says that they feel unsafe posting here, because of replies they get.

                            Control over who can reply to a toot would be amazing, as a way to improve this without them needing to mute or block post-harm.

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                            #59

                            @neil

                            You can set it so only followers or people mentioned in a post can see it. Would that not achieve the same result as you cannot reply to what you cannot see.

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                            • the5thcolumnist@mstdn.caT the5thcolumnist@mstdn.ca

                              @neil

                              You can set it so only followers or people mentioned in a post can see it. Would that not achieve the same result as you cannot reply to what you cannot see.

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                              #60

                              @the5thColumnist @neil no – it limits the audience, not what the audience can do. (additionally, the followers-only visibility doesn't do what you think it does – the audience changes with each message.)

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                              • neil@mastodon.neilzone.co.ukN neil@mastodon.neilzone.co.uk

                                It always makes me sad when another fedi user - and, in my experience, it is always a woman - says that they feel unsafe posting here, because of replies they get.

                                Control over who can reply to a toot would be amazing, as a way to improve this without them needing to mute or block post-harm.

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                                #61

                                @neil the problem is more the server itself, had been on two or tree server, never had the issue (i do not say the issue don't exist), just say that on server with good moderation, the issue is blocked even before starting.

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                                • neil@mastodon.neilzone.co.ukN neil@mastodon.neilzone.co.uk

                                  Every time I mention this, at least one man pops up to say that they would not want to follow a woman who chooses to restrict replies.

                                  So here, I have covered it in advance 🙂

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                                  #62

                                  @neil obliging of them to make us aware that they're part of the problem

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                                  • neil@mastodon.neilzone.co.ukN neil@mastodon.neilzone.co.uk

                                    It always makes me sad when another fedi user - and, in my experience, it is always a woman - says that they feel unsafe posting here, because of replies they get.

                                    Control over who can reply to a toot would be amazing, as a way to improve this without them needing to mute or block post-harm.

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                                    #63

                                    @neil ah, if only we could persuade the Mastodon team to do that, instead of *checks notes* changing the way profile key-value fields are formatted to something unusable

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                                    • tknarr@mstdn.socialT tknarr@mstdn.social

                                      @neil I'm still looking at what's involved in creating subscribeable blocklists. The basic hook into the block functionality on the server is obvious enough, but the list itself involves learning everything about the ActivityPub protocol and the federation and syndication models. Making it useful involves having categorization and user ratings while preventing abuse of them too. Straightforward in concept, terminally hirsute in implementation.

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                                      #64

                                      @tknarr @neil We're in the days of being able to use LLM's to summarize and 'vibes check' a users last few dozen posts. No reason to rely on someone else's blocklist. Train your own based on topics you don't want to hear about or similarity to other posts you've flagged.

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                                      • mawhrin@circumstances.runM mawhrin@circumstances.run

                                        @the5thColumnist @neil no – it limits the audience, not what the audience can do. (additionally, the followers-only visibility doesn't do what you think it does – the audience changes with each message.)

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                                        #65

                                        @mawhrin @neil

                                        I see your point. You want people to be able to see the post but not comment on it. There does not appear to be a way to do that, at least not on the web interface.

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                                        • tknarr@mstdn.socialT tknarr@mstdn.social

                                          @HunterZ @neil Did I say anything about it being at the instance level? No, I did not.

                                          The use cases all involve decisions by individual users about which blocklists to subscribe to. It certainly _could_ be used by an instance admin, but we already give them that power by allowing instance-level blocking in the first place. The social issue there isn't subscribeable blocklilsts, it's having an instance admin you can't trust not to block people inappropriately by whatever mechanism.

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                                          #66

                                          @tknarr @HunterZ @neil

                                          How do you know whether everyone in a blocklist deserves to be there, how do you get removed if someone puts you there for trivial reasons, etc

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