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Romantik ist kein Naturgesetz,sie ist ein normatives Skript,kapitalistisch verstärktund sozial eingefordert.Liebe braucht das nicht.#aromantik #actuallyautistic #neurodivergent

… In other words, the elevated creativity reported by autistic individuals could be explained by whether or not they also had ADHD.«https://www.psypost.org/creativity-in-autism-may-stem-from-co-occurring-adhd-not-autism-itself//2

Das ist im Prinzip schon lange bekannt, und Autisten erleben es genau so! Dass sich die Vorstellung, dass autistische Meltdowns Trotzreaktionen oder Wutausbrüche seien, bis heute hält, liegt daran, dass uns nicht zugehört bzw. geglaubt wird. #ActuallyAutistic #AutismusRE: https://bsky.app/profile/did:plc:xp5m7rg7b3klurxhkljeekyh/post/3mblpuz2j3n2d

I realised this afternoon: 2026 will be the first calendar year I will be able to live fully as my true #ActuallyAutistic self.Being over 55, this feels like a bit of a “thing”.This means *not* questioning or “adjusting” how my brain processes things.This means *not* hiding the fact that I am an autist.This means, in a way I have *never* done before, accepting myself as myself and not feeling I need to compromise that.For 50+ years, I have moulded myself to others’ expectations. I’m not going to claim they were all malicious in their desire to shape me to something other than I was.But correspondingly, malice is not the only way such attempts or intentions cause damage.I want to heal, and sometimes that will mean removing myself from relationships which have caused me damage, whether intended or not.Viva me, I guess.#HappyNewYear

Ich habe auch einfach keine Lust darauf, mein Leben lang strukturell benachteiligt zu sein, nur weil ich mich nicht normgerecht verwerten lasse.#actuallyautistic #AuDHD

Like many other autistic and/or disabled people I will spend Christmas on my own and while I appreciate my alone time and the atmosphere and the silence of it, I know it can be difficult and hurtful.So I would like to connect with other people who spend Christmas on their own or experience feelings of loneliness during these days, by interacting with this post. That can be just leaving and receiving a virtual hug or telling each other about the gifts you received or gave yourself during the year, maybe share a piece of music, write about your favourite video game or any other special interest. You can do this in private mode (English or German), I know that interacting with groups can be difficult, impossible sometimes, but every now and then I write posts like this during a moment of bravery and I already found amazing online friends by doing so.Let's support each other in a world that makes building connection so difficult and feelings of loneliness so common.Boosts are very much appreciated. Thank you.#ActuallyAutistic #AuDHD #disabled #ChronicallyIll #neurodivergent #MentalHealth

Den technischen Support der Agentur für Arbeit kann man nur telefonisch erreichen, und weil das für mich mal wieder nicht barrierefrei ist, bin ich kurz davor, meinen Termin einfach abzusagen. Ich weiß ja nicht, was in der Nachricht steht, die ich im Portal abrufen soll, auf das ich keinen Zugriff mehr habe. Klar könnte ich die Extraenergie mal wieder aufbringen, aber ich habe echt keine Lust mehr darauf, nur weil Barrierefreiheit hier keinen Schwanz interessiert 🤬#actuallyautistic