Mastodon Skip to content
  • Home
  • Aktuell
  • Tags
  • Über dieses Forum
Einklappen
Grafik mit zwei überlappenden Sprechblasen, eine grün und eine lila.
Abspeckgeflüster – Forum für Menschen mit Gewicht(ung)

Kostenlos. Werbefrei. Menschlich. Dein Abnehmforum.

  1. Home
  2. Uncategorized
  3. Two things:1.

Two things:1.

Geplant Angeheftet Gesperrt Verschoben Uncategorized
79 Beiträge 60 Kommentatoren 0 Aufrufe
  • Älteste zuerst
  • Neuste zuerst
  • Meiste Stimmen
Antworten
  • In einem neuen Thema antworten
Anmelden zum Antworten
Dieses Thema wurde gelöscht. Nur Nutzer mit entsprechenden Rechten können es sehen.
  • ninafelwitch@tech.lgbtN ninafelwitch@tech.lgbt

    @phantasus @Ashedryden
    I chose to delete my facebook accounts. WhatsApp, Instagram, gone. When a friend planned their birthday party, they had a WhatsApp group where they discussed who would bring what and what everyone would wear.

    Of course I was not in that group. I didn't know there was a desscode. I didn't know everyone would bring salad and stuff like that.
    I was already excluded, because I have principles.

    Friends buy the most recent Ubisoft game, or EA game, or Bethesda game, or Nintendo game, or some other game released by a shady company. I can't. I'm excluded from their talks about their new favorite game, because I have principles.

    Friends send me Tiktok links, or Instagram links, or Facebook links. I can't access them because I don't have accounts there. I'm excluded.

    The majority of people will freely give up their ID to companies with bad cyber security.
    I won't. And I'll be excluded again.

    phantasus@fedi.atP This user is from outside of this forum
    phantasus@fedi.atP This user is from outside of this forum
    phantasus@fedi.at
    schrieb zuletzt editiert von
    #29

    @ninafelwitch @Ashedryden Yeah, that's also the reason why I'm on WhatsApp, only because of family connections or to read some updates from meetup groups.

    But I'm not really present there. And at some point you would be lonely sitting in your flat, without any connection with people anymore.

    I still suffer from that, while I'm not as 100% "pure" or stringent when it comes to my denial of such corporations. At some point you break, at some point you long for connection, if you are basically lonely in your offline life.

    If it would be different, then I would be less pressured to even use these services at all. Do I trust Signal, Discord, Reddit, Telegram? No, not at all.

    First real life connections become more and more impossible as you get older, then only connections in those walled gardens can be found and it's painful.

    ninafelwitch@tech.lgbtN 1 Antwort Letzte Antwort
    0
    • ashedryden@xoxo.zoneA ashedryden@xoxo.zone

      RE: https://mastodon.social/@verge/116041069446538092

      Two things:
      1. We are creating a two-tiered internet that will see people willing to give up their IDs having one experience while those who can’t, won’t, or don’t have them missing out on those experiences or being outright excluded from whole areas of the web

      2. Why you would be willing to give up your ID to web services that have such poor security in a time when identity is being weaponized by state actors is beyond me

      coleblank@mastodon.socialC This user is from outside of this forum
      coleblank@mastodon.socialC This user is from outside of this forum
      coleblank@mastodon.social
      schrieb zuletzt editiert von
      #30

      @Ashedryden I don’t even have a Discord account but it’s weird where things are going online. The web as I've known it for 20 years is becoming unrecognizable.

      1 Antwort Letzte Antwort
      0
      • annika@xoxo.zoneA annika@xoxo.zone

        @Ashedryden TIL there was already an update to the "nobody knows you're a dog" cartoon. 11 years since the revision and it's still getting worse https://blog.mozilla.org/en/firefox/irl-on-the-internet-no-one-knows-youre-doggo/

        maccruiskeen@social.linux.pizzaM This user is from outside of this forum
        maccruiskeen@social.linux.pizzaM This user is from outside of this forum
        maccruiskeen@social.linux.pizza
        schrieb zuletzt editiert von
        #31

        @annika @Ashedryden Now, not only do they know you're a dog, they know what breed you are, what kind of kibble you eat, and how often you go out for walkies.

        geospacedman@mastodon.socialG 1 Antwort Letzte Antwort
        0
        • phantasus@fedi.atP phantasus@fedi.at

          @ninafelwitch @Ashedryden Yeah, that's also the reason why I'm on WhatsApp, only because of family connections or to read some updates from meetup groups.

          But I'm not really present there. And at some point you would be lonely sitting in your flat, without any connection with people anymore.

          I still suffer from that, while I'm not as 100% "pure" or stringent when it comes to my denial of such corporations. At some point you break, at some point you long for connection, if you are basically lonely in your offline life.

          If it would be different, then I would be less pressured to even use these services at all. Do I trust Signal, Discord, Reddit, Telegram? No, not at all.

          First real life connections become more and more impossible as you get older, then only connections in those walled gardens can be found and it's painful.

          ninafelwitch@tech.lgbtN This user is from outside of this forum
          ninafelwitch@tech.lgbtN This user is from outside of this forum
          ninafelwitch@tech.lgbt
          schrieb zuletzt editiert von
          #32

          @phantasus
          " lonely sitting in your flat, without any connection with people anymore"
          Yeah...
          So far I still have Discord. But I might not for much longer.
          I still have steam to chat with friends who are also on steam. But some only have a playstation or xbox. And none of them are on fedi.
          It was hard to convince some of my friends to follow me to signal. I don't think I'll be able to convince anyone to switch to IRC, XMPP or forums.
          Discord is where all my guilds are. It's where all my friends have their little chat groups.

          Leaving Facebook and Twitter was easy. Leaving Discord will be near impossible if I want to keep any of my contacts.

          1 Antwort Letzte Antwort
          0
          • ashedryden@xoxo.zoneA ashedryden@xoxo.zone

            RE: https://mastodon.social/@verge/116041069446538092

            Two things:
            1. We are creating a two-tiered internet that will see people willing to give up their IDs having one experience while those who can’t, won’t, or don’t have them missing out on those experiences or being outright excluded from whole areas of the web

            2. Why you would be willing to give up your ID to web services that have such poor security in a time when identity is being weaponized by state actors is beyond me

            sayonaraminasan@urusai.socialS This user is from outside of this forum
            sayonaraminasan@urusai.socialS This user is from outside of this forum
            sayonaraminasan@urusai.social
            schrieb zuletzt editiert von
            #33

            @Ashedryden astute.

            This really is the start of a a two tiered internet. 🛜 I just wonder - will the majority of folks go for this? In my heart I feel like they will. To appear “normal” will be to completely give up all online anonymity. (As if we had that to begin with)

            The implications of this will be felt in the short term, and I wonder just how many I.C.E detainments (here in the U.S) this will lead to.

            1 Antwort Letzte Antwort
            0
            • ashedryden@xoxo.zoneA ashedryden@xoxo.zone

              RE: https://mastodon.social/@verge/116041069446538092

              Two things:
              1. We are creating a two-tiered internet that will see people willing to give up their IDs having one experience while those who can’t, won’t, or don’t have them missing out on those experiences or being outright excluded from whole areas of the web

              2. Why you would be willing to give up your ID to web services that have such poor security in a time when identity is being weaponized by state actors is beyond me

              yuki2501@masto.hackers.townY This user is from outside of this forum
              yuki2501@masto.hackers.townY This user is from outside of this forum
              yuki2501@masto.hackers.town
              schrieb zuletzt editiert von
              #34

              @Ashedryden I've felt this.

              I've been searching for alternative ways to get music only to find albums don't get sold anymore; it's always Spotify.

              It's a crushing pressure from the industry. FOMO to the max level.

              I'm stubborn and I can take it, but most people - especially teenagers - don't have what it takes to resist the encroachment of techno feudalism on entertainment.

              And I even miss hearing my old music.

              su_liam@mas.toS 1 Antwort Letzte Antwort
              0
              • ashedryden@xoxo.zoneA ashedryden@xoxo.zone

                RE: https://mastodon.social/@verge/116041069446538092

                Two things:
                1. We are creating a two-tiered internet that will see people willing to give up their IDs having one experience while those who can’t, won’t, or don’t have them missing out on those experiences or being outright excluded from whole areas of the web

                2. Why you would be willing to give up your ID to web services that have such poor security in a time when identity is being weaponized by state actors is beyond me

                notsle@kzoo.toN This user is from outside of this forum
                notsle@kzoo.toN This user is from outside of this forum
                notsle@kzoo.to
                schrieb zuletzt editiert von
                #35

                @Ashedryden https://www.eff.org/deeplinks/2025/12/10-not-so-hidden-dangers-age-verification

                1 Antwort Letzte Antwort
                0
                • ashedryden@xoxo.zoneA ashedryden@xoxo.zone

                  RE: https://mastodon.social/@verge/116041069446538092

                  Two things:
                  1. We are creating a two-tiered internet that will see people willing to give up their IDs having one experience while those who can’t, won’t, or don’t have them missing out on those experiences or being outright excluded from whole areas of the web

                  2. Why you would be willing to give up your ID to web services that have such poor security in a time when identity is being weaponized by state actors is beyond me

                  su_liam@mas.toS This user is from outside of this forum
                  su_liam@mas.toS This user is from outside of this forum
                  su_liam@mas.to
                  schrieb zuletzt editiert von
                  #36

                  @Ashedryden There’s always the dark web.

                  1 Antwort Letzte Antwort
                  0
                  • yuki2501@masto.hackers.townY yuki2501@masto.hackers.town

                    @Ashedryden I've felt this.

                    I've been searching for alternative ways to get music only to find albums don't get sold anymore; it's always Spotify.

                    It's a crushing pressure from the industry. FOMO to the max level.

                    I'm stubborn and I can take it, but most people - especially teenagers - don't have what it takes to resist the encroachment of techno feudalism on entertainment.

                    And I even miss hearing my old music.

                    su_liam@mas.toS This user is from outside of this forum
                    su_liam@mas.toS This user is from outside of this forum
                    su_liam@mas.to
                    schrieb zuletzt editiert von
                    #37

                    @yuki2501 @Ashedryden Time to break out that piratebay.

                    1 Antwort Letzte Antwort
                    0
                    • ashedryden@xoxo.zoneA ashedryden@xoxo.zone

                      RE: https://mastodon.social/@verge/116041069446538092

                      Two things:
                      1. We are creating a two-tiered internet that will see people willing to give up their IDs having one experience while those who can’t, won’t, or don’t have them missing out on those experiences or being outright excluded from whole areas of the web

                      2. Why you would be willing to give up your ID to web services that have such poor security in a time when identity is being weaponized by state actors is beyond me

                      manchestermelly@universeodon.comM This user is from outside of this forum
                      manchestermelly@universeodon.comM This user is from outside of this forum
                      manchestermelly@universeodon.com
                      schrieb zuletzt editiert von
                      #38

                      @Ashedryden Instant account deletion for me. There's no way I trust random platforms with a copy of my ID.

                      1 Antwort Letzte Antwort
                      0
                      • ashedryden@xoxo.zoneA ashedryden@xoxo.zone

                        RE: https://mastodon.social/@verge/116041069446538092

                        Two things:
                        1. We are creating a two-tiered internet that will see people willing to give up their IDs having one experience while those who can’t, won’t, or don’t have them missing out on those experiences or being outright excluded from whole areas of the web

                        2. Why you would be willing to give up your ID to web services that have such poor security in a time when identity is being weaponized by state actors is beyond me

                        cetraria@neurodifferent.meC This user is from outside of this forum
                        cetraria@neurodifferent.meC This user is from outside of this forum
                        cetraria@neurodifferent.me
                        schrieb zuletzt editiert von
                        #39

                        @Ashedryden oh yeah, no. I was literally just thinking about how I've never really gotten the hang of Discord. The signal to noise ratio is just so far off, I just kinda forget it exists.

                        I'll definitely be peacing out on that one.

                        1 Antwort Letzte Antwort
                        0
                        • ashedryden@xoxo.zoneA ashedryden@xoxo.zone

                          RE: https://mastodon.social/@verge/116041069446538092

                          Two things:
                          1. We are creating a two-tiered internet that will see people willing to give up their IDs having one experience while those who can’t, won’t, or don’t have them missing out on those experiences or being outright excluded from whole areas of the web

                          2. Why you would be willing to give up your ID to web services that have such poor security in a time when identity is being weaponized by state actors is beyond me

                          kanamauna@sauropods.winK This user is from outside of this forum
                          kanamauna@sauropods.winK This user is from outside of this forum
                          kanamauna@sauropods.win
                          schrieb zuletzt editiert von
                          #40

                          @Ashedryden

                          With all that is always happening, at this point I assume state actors are pushing it.

                          hypolite@friendica.mrpetovan.comH crazy_pony@rubber.socialC 2 Antworten Letzte Antwort
                          0
                          • kanamauna@sauropods.winK kanamauna@sauropods.win

                            @Ashedryden

                            With all that is always happening, at this point I assume state actors are pushing it.

                            hypolite@friendica.mrpetovan.comH This user is from outside of this forum
                            hypolite@friendica.mrpetovan.comH This user is from outside of this forum
                            hypolite@friendica.mrpetovan.com
                            schrieb zuletzt editiert von
                            #41
                            @KanaMauna @Ashedryden "State actor" is a peculiar way of describing the legislative body of a country, but it isn't wrong.
                            1 Antwort Letzte Antwort
                            0
                            • ashedryden@xoxo.zoneA ashedryden@xoxo.zone

                              RE: https://mastodon.social/@verge/116041069446538092

                              Two things:
                              1. We are creating a two-tiered internet that will see people willing to give up their IDs having one experience while those who can’t, won’t, or don’t have them missing out on those experiences or being outright excluded from whole areas of the web

                              2. Why you would be willing to give up your ID to web services that have such poor security in a time when identity is being weaponized by state actors is beyond me

                              lordbowlich@masto.hackers.townL This user is from outside of this forum
                              lordbowlich@masto.hackers.townL This user is from outside of this forum
                              lordbowlich@masto.hackers.town
                              schrieb zuletzt editiert von
                              #42

                              @Ashedryden

                              I think for a lot of us this is already the case that we just don’t computer the way the majority do: we don’t use the same OS, applications, browsers, chat apps, social networks, search engines, media, or even read the same news.

                              We interact with corporate silos through sock puppets. Which ID laws will close that loop. And we’ll be forced to decide if we want to keep a prescience on that side of the wall at all.

                              1 Antwort Letzte Antwort
                              0
                              • ashedryden@xoxo.zoneA ashedryden@xoxo.zone

                                RE: https://mastodon.social/@verge/116041069446538092

                                Two things:
                                1. We are creating a two-tiered internet that will see people willing to give up their IDs having one experience while those who can’t, won’t, or don’t have them missing out on those experiences or being outright excluded from whole areas of the web

                                2. Why you would be willing to give up your ID to web services that have such poor security in a time when identity is being weaponized by state actors is beyond me

                                C This user is from outside of this forum
                                C This user is from outside of this forum
                                cresssalad@mastodon.social
                                schrieb zuletzt editiert von
                                #43

                                @Ashedryden if its done right they will be using federation with an identity provider whom people do trust, but I doubt that will happen as identity in itself = $$$ in the marketing world.

                                1 Antwort Letzte Antwort
                                0
                                • ashedryden@xoxo.zoneA ashedryden@xoxo.zone

                                  RE: https://mastodon.social/@verge/116041069446538092

                                  Two things:
                                  1. We are creating a two-tiered internet that will see people willing to give up their IDs having one experience while those who can’t, won’t, or don’t have them missing out on those experiences or being outright excluded from whole areas of the web

                                  2. Why you would be willing to give up your ID to web services that have such poor security in a time when identity is being weaponized by state actors is beyond me

                                  cenbe@techhub.socialC This user is from outside of this forum
                                  cenbe@techhub.socialC This user is from outside of this forum
                                  cenbe@techhub.social
                                  schrieb zuletzt editiert von
                                  #44

                                  @Ashedryden But why on god's green earth would you want to use Discord?

                                  1 Antwort Letzte Antwort
                                  0
                                  • kanamauna@sauropods.winK kanamauna@sauropods.win

                                    @Ashedryden

                                    With all that is always happening, at this point I assume state actors are pushing it.

                                    crazy_pony@rubber.socialC This user is from outside of this forum
                                    crazy_pony@rubber.socialC This user is from outside of this forum
                                    crazy_pony@rubber.social
                                    schrieb zuletzt editiert von
                                    #45

                                    @KanaMauna @Ashedryden
                                    Thats quite sure, states are either already fascist or at least having actors preparing that way, making sure that people are anywhere ever identified is very important for them

                                    1 Antwort Letzte Antwort
                                    0
                                    • netraven@hear-me.socialN netraven@hear-me.social

                                      @Ashedryden I wish people could of ALWAYS seen this coming.

                                      d1@autistics.lifeD This user is from outside of this forum
                                      d1@autistics.lifeD This user is from outside of this forum
                                      d1@autistics.life
                                      schrieb zuletzt editiert von
                                      #46

                                      @Netraven @Ashedryden those with so-called "Cassandra Syndrome" could have warned of this, but are, alas, cursed with being ignored.
                                      #actuallyautistic @autistics

                                      1 Antwort Letzte Antwort
                                      0
                                      • mochabeau@infosec.exchangeM mochabeau@infosec.exchange

                                        @Ashedryden teamspeak is great for voice, but someone NEEDS to make a better alternative for chatting. i haven't found a platform that works nearly as well as discord, and it sucks.

                                        d1@autistics.lifeD This user is from outside of this forum
                                        d1@autistics.lifeD This user is from outside of this forum
                                        d1@autistics.life
                                        schrieb zuletzt editiert von
                                        #47

                                        @mochabeau @Ashedryden Agreed, as to the need for a better alternative, however the "QOS rules" conundrum is very difficult to solve:

                                        https://autistics.life/@d1/116024756035274849

                                        mochabeau@infosec.exchangeM 1 Antwort Letzte Antwort
                                        0
                                        • ashedryden@xoxo.zoneA ashedryden@xoxo.zone

                                          RE: https://mastodon.social/@verge/116041069446538092

                                          Two things:
                                          1. We are creating a two-tiered internet that will see people willing to give up their IDs having one experience while those who can’t, won’t, or don’t have them missing out on those experiences or being outright excluded from whole areas of the web

                                          2. Why you would be willing to give up your ID to web services that have such poor security in a time when identity is being weaponized by state actors is beyond me

                                          softproof@mastodon.socialS This user is from outside of this forum
                                          softproof@mastodon.socialS This user is from outside of this forum
                                          softproof@mastodon.social
                                          schrieb zuletzt editiert von
                                          #48

                                          @Ashedryden Fully agree with you on 2.
                                          As for two-tier internet - ever since some clever clogs came up with the magic word "premium", segregation was born. Not too many complaints neither, looks like.

                                          1 Antwort Letzte Antwort
                                          0
                                          Antworten
                                          • In einem neuen Thema antworten
                                          Anmelden zum Antworten
                                          • Älteste zuerst
                                          • Neuste zuerst
                                          • Meiste Stimmen



                                          Copyright (c) 2025 abSpecktrum (@abspecklog@fedimonster.de)

                                          Erstellt mit Schlaflosigkeit, Kaffee, Brokkoli & ♥

                                          Impressum | Datenschutzerklärung | Nutzungsbedingungen

                                          • Anmelden

                                          • Du hast noch kein Konto? Registrieren

                                          • Anmelden oder registrieren, um zu suchen
                                          • Erster Beitrag
                                            Letzter Beitrag
                                          0
                                          • Home
                                          • Aktuell
                                          • Tags
                                          • Über dieses Forum