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  • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

    Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

    What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

    What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

    This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

    "Just block them" doesn't work.

    tirf@mastodon.mlT This user is from outside of this forum
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    #53

    @FediTips, the main thing is not to turn out to be a bigot yourself, a bigot who blocks people simply for dissent. And it is important to remember that the main threat to the free Internet and freedom in general is not misguided people, but monopolies and the politicians who serve them.

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    • mees@sunny.gardenM mees@sunny.garden

      @Energetic_Nova @FediTips @e_t_wright @roknrol that's just horrible!

      You are aware that there are many better moderated instances around? Mastodon.social has a pretty bad name, it's just too big to block for most servers. It's definitely worth looking around, if you're not doing that already.

      energetic_nova@mastodon.socialE This user is from outside of this forum
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      #54

      @mees @FediTips @e_t_wright @roknrol

      They said I was insulting people when I told them I hated them… but they called me illiterate. Which was an intelligence based insult… I dont think telling people you hate them for ruining their life is “insulting”. I think that is something else entirely. Its an emotion which I expressed. Which is not an insult. Its a feeling….

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      • tirf@mastodon.mlT tirf@mastodon.ml

        @FediTips, the main thing is not to turn out to be a bigot yourself, a bigot who blocks people simply for dissent. And it is important to remember that the main threat to the free Internet and freedom in general is not misguided people, but monopolies and the politicians who serve them.

        project1enigma@chaos.socialP This user is from outside of this forum
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        #55

        @tirf @FediTips

        All too often bigots hide their bigotry as "dissent". "I'm not a bigot, I just have a different opinion about the right of disabled people to live a life in dignity." And then they DARVO if they are blocked or reported or called out.

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        • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

          Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

          What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

          What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

          This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

          "Just block them" doesn't work.

          j_hearsay@infosec.exchangeJ This user is from outside of this forum
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          #56

          @FediTips

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          • itzpingcat@sakurajima.moeI itzpingcat@sakurajima.moe

            @FediTips @e_t_wright
            What if it’s on Nostr, but I can’t defederate from Nostr.

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            #57

            @itzpingcat@sakurajima.moe why can't you defederate nostr? /Genq

            We were able to block them by defederating all the bridges, and that's worked perfectly ever since.

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            • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

              Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

              What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

              What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

              This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

              "Just block them" doesn't work.

              martinaneumayer@mastodon.socialM This user is from outside of this forum
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              #58

              @FediTips Yeap.. Happened to me too. Not on Fediverse but still and doesn't change the fact that I got at first harassed and verbally molested online and later in the real life brutally attacked and beaten by same a-holes. And all because the people who were obliged to react (admins and moderators of an well known, "reputable" IT forum) did not do so and, through their ignorance, allowed the escalation. What's more, they even tried to sweep the case under the carpet and delete the evidences.

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              • haui@mastodon.giftedmc.comH haui@mastodon.giftedmc.com

                @alex
                Bluesky as in the next oppressive and corrupt police state (because they apparently have centralized moderation).

                It wasnt a sincere suggestion but an explanation of why oppressing your fellow people does not work but the conditions need to change. As in bluesky is what happens when you try to solve an issue with more instead of less oppression.

                As I said, fanon wrote about this. Alexandra Kollontai did too in "the social basis of the woman question"
                @FediTips

                zotheca@mementomori.socialZ This user is from outside of this forum
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                #59

                @haui

                The usual dilemma. Instead of addressing the criticism of the Fediverse, which has been described very well here, some people prefer to write "Bluesky is stupid." The uncomfortable truth is that the accounts that were kicked off Bluesky for anti-Semitism have found a good home in the Fediverse and are still being courted here.

                @alex @FediTips

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                • zotheca@mementomori.socialZ zotheca@mementomori.social

                  @haui

                  The usual dilemma. Instead of addressing the criticism of the Fediverse, which has been described very well here, some people prefer to write "Bluesky is stupid." The uncomfortable truth is that the accounts that were kicked off Bluesky for anti-Semitism have found a good home in the Fediverse and are still being courted here.

                  @alex @FediTips

                  haui@mastodon.giftedmc.comH This user is from outside of this forum
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                  #60

                  @zotheca
                  Yikes. Theres a lot to unpack here.

                  First of all, nice strawman! You definitely know that your fake criticism does not adress anything that was written and only tries to trigger people.

                  Second, mixing antisemitism allegations in a discussion is no red flag AT ALL, right?

                  I suggest you walk along. I dont think we have anything constructive to discuss.
                  @alex @FediTips

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                  • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

                    Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

                    What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

                    What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

                    This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

                    "Just block them" doesn't work.

                    feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF This user is from outside of this forum
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                    #61

                    p.s. If anyone wants a specific real life example of this actually happening, here is one:

                    https://www.theguardian.com/world/2025/aug/20/family-in-fear-after-tommy-robinson-shares-video-of-black-man-with-white-granddaughters

                    TL:DR -

                    A black grandfather played with his white grandchildren in the park, their family videoed it as it was a wholesome scene.

                    Far right racists stole the video and lied about its context, claiming it was actually an immigrant trying to abduct kids. The video and lies were shared millions of times. The innocent grandfather is now threatened in the street and lives in fear.

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                    • haui@mastodon.giftedmc.comH haui@mastodon.giftedmc.com

                      @zotheca
                      Yikes. Theres a lot to unpack here.

                      First of all, nice strawman! You definitely know that your fake criticism does not adress anything that was written and only tries to trigger people.

                      Second, mixing antisemitism allegations in a discussion is no red flag AT ALL, right?

                      I suggest you walk along. I dont think we have anything constructive to discuss.
                      @alex @FediTips

                      zotheca@mementomori.socialZ This user is from outside of this forum
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                      #62

                      @haui

                      „I suggest you walk along. I dont think we have anything constructive to discuss.“

                      I suggest you start with yourself and simply don't respond.

                      @alex @FediTips

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                      • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

                        Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

                        What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

                        What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

                        This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

                        "Just block them" doesn't work.

                        jgivoni@mastodon.socialJ This user is from outside of this forum
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                        #63

                        @FediTips Thank you for calling it out and making this recommendation 👍

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