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I am SO TIRED of people telling me what to think.

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  • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

    I am SO TIRED of people telling me what to think.

    "Explains" is in my literal job title. Yet I'm explained-to every minute of every day.

    Hundreds of comments a day assuming I don't know how tech works. Hundreds of comments from randos telling me how I should feel about my city being under paramilitary occupation.

    Dudes: SHUT UP

    gedvondur@hulvr.comG This user is from outside of this forum
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    #2

    @vkc WELL AKSHULLY

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    • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

      I am SO TIRED of people telling me what to think.

      "Explains" is in my literal job title. Yet I'm explained-to every minute of every day.

      Hundreds of comments a day assuming I don't know how tech works. Hundreds of comments from randos telling me how I should feel about my city being under paramilitary occupation.

      Dudes: SHUT UP

      byte@awawa.clubB This user is from outside of this forum
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      #3
      @vkc i bet someone will pop up here in replies trying to explain why that happens
      thedaemon@snac.9front.clubT smolbrain@floofy.techS 2 Antworten Letzte Antwort
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      • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

        I am SO TIRED of people telling me what to think.

        "Explains" is in my literal job title. Yet I'm explained-to every minute of every day.

        Hundreds of comments a day assuming I don't know how tech works. Hundreds of comments from randos telling me how I should feel about my city being under paramilitary occupation.

        Dudes: SHUT UP

        vkc@linuxmom.netV This user is from outside of this forum
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        #4

        I wake up to comments and emails from dudes explaining to me *with absolute certainty* why I'm wrong on Linux, Commodore, or something else.

        I go to the store to buy parts for servers or small projects, and I'm accosted by dudes who explain to me what tools or equipment I *should* be using.

        In meetings where I present technical information, the Chief Dudebro Officer tells me to "thank the guys that wrote this".

        And on this site, EVERY POST I MAKE, are dudes explaining things I already know.

        vkc@linuxmom.netV eldersea@expressional.socialE bytebro@mastodonapp.ukB smolbrain@floofy.techS rogrroger@mastodon.socialR 6 Antworten Letzte Antwort
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        • byte@awawa.clubB byte@awawa.club
          @vkc i bet someone will pop up here in replies trying to explain why that happens
          thedaemon@snac.9front.clubT This user is from outside of this forum
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          #5
          I can see it now "Well actually..." bruv, please.

          CC: @vkc@linuxmom.net
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          • byte@awawa.clubB byte@awawa.club
            @vkc i bet someone will pop up here in replies trying to explain why that happens
            smolbrain@floofy.techS This user is from outside of this forum
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            #6

            @byte -from the other room- DONT LET THEM START YET IM STILL MAKING POPCORN @vkc

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            • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

              I wake up to comments and emails from dudes explaining to me *with absolute certainty* why I'm wrong on Linux, Commodore, or something else.

              I go to the store to buy parts for servers or small projects, and I'm accosted by dudes who explain to me what tools or equipment I *should* be using.

              In meetings where I present technical information, the Chief Dudebro Officer tells me to "thank the guys that wrote this".

              And on this site, EVERY POST I MAKE, are dudes explaining things I already know.

              vkc@linuxmom.netV This user is from outside of this forum
              vkc@linuxmom.netV This user is from outside of this forum
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              #7

              "Why aren't more women in tech?"

              Look in the fucking mirror, dudes.

              vkc@linuxmom.netV kubefred@techhub.socialK cbleslie@hachyderm.ioC kaze@meow.socialK nlupo@amikejo.xyzN 5 Antworten Letzte Antwort
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              • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

                I wake up to comments and emails from dudes explaining to me *with absolute certainty* why I'm wrong on Linux, Commodore, or something else.

                I go to the store to buy parts for servers or small projects, and I'm accosted by dudes who explain to me what tools or equipment I *should* be using.

                In meetings where I present technical information, the Chief Dudebro Officer tells me to "thank the guys that wrote this".

                And on this site, EVERY POST I MAKE, are dudes explaining things I already know.

                eldersea@expressional.socialE This user is from outside of this forum
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                #8

                @vkc Kinda feels like someone who owns linuxmom.net maybe, just maybe, has a solid grasp of Linux.

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                • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

                  I am SO TIRED of people telling me what to think.

                  "Explains" is in my literal job title. Yet I'm explained-to every minute of every day.

                  Hundreds of comments a day assuming I don't know how tech works. Hundreds of comments from randos telling me how I should feel about my city being under paramilitary occupation.

                  Dudes: SHUT UP

                  beemdvp@techhub.socialB This user is from outside of this forum
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                  #9

                  @vkc keep moving linux forward, really respect and love your work and I have learned a lot from it

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                  • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

                    I wake up to comments and emails from dudes explaining to me *with absolute certainty* why I'm wrong on Linux, Commodore, or something else.

                    I go to the store to buy parts for servers or small projects, and I'm accosted by dudes who explain to me what tools or equipment I *should* be using.

                    In meetings where I present technical information, the Chief Dudebro Officer tells me to "thank the guys that wrote this".

                    And on this site, EVERY POST I MAKE, are dudes explaining things I already know.

                    bytebro@mastodonapp.ukB This user is from outside of this forum
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                    #10

                    @vkc

                    Even socially, I am getting very tired of those people who's responses all begin with 'what you should do is...'

                    Nah. I was 'unloading', not 'seeking advice'.

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                    • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

                      "Why aren't more women in tech?"

                      Look in the fucking mirror, dudes.

                      vkc@linuxmom.netV This user is from outside of this forum
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                      #11

                      I don't want your platitudes, gentlemen. I want you to take every "keep fighting the good fight", ball it up into a fist, and swing it at a man who's explaining tech to a woman who's spent her ENTIRE LIFE working with it.

                      I was never here to "fight a good fight". That's your job.

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                      • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

                        I wake up to comments and emails from dudes explaining to me *with absolute certainty* why I'm wrong on Linux, Commodore, or something else.

                        I go to the store to buy parts for servers or small projects, and I'm accosted by dudes who explain to me what tools or equipment I *should* be using.

                        In meetings where I present technical information, the Chief Dudebro Officer tells me to "thank the guys that wrote this".

                        And on this site, EVERY POST I MAKE, are dudes explaining things I already know.

                        smolbrain@floofy.techS This user is from outside of this forum
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                        #12

                        @vkc I would beg you to tell me this isnt real... but i couldnt ask someone to lie that hard...

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                        • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

                          "Why aren't more women in tech?"

                          Look in the fucking mirror, dudes.

                          kubefred@techhub.socialK This user is from outside of this forum
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                          #13

                          @vkc maybe they miss their mommies, want someone to pat them on the head and say "good boy!"

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                          • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

                            I am SO TIRED of people telling me what to think.

                            "Explains" is in my literal job title. Yet I'm explained-to every minute of every day.

                            Hundreds of comments a day assuming I don't know how tech works. Hundreds of comments from randos telling me how I should feel about my city being under paramilitary occupation.

                            Dudes: SHUT UP

                            zerkman@pouet.chapril.orgZ This user is from outside of this forum
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                            #14

                            @vkc Those dudes suck. You rock. The internet is a better place with you around.
                            Sending all the positive vibes I can.

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                            • smolbrain@floofy.techS smolbrain@floofy.tech

                              @vkc I would beg you to tell me this isnt real... but i couldnt ask someone to lie that hard...

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                              #15

                              @vkc specifically the meeting one
                              Just... its.. so blatant it makes me sick to my stomach

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                              • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

                                I wake up to comments and emails from dudes explaining to me *with absolute certainty* why I'm wrong on Linux, Commodore, or something else.

                                I go to the store to buy parts for servers or small projects, and I'm accosted by dudes who explain to me what tools or equipment I *should* be using.

                                In meetings where I present technical information, the Chief Dudebro Officer tells me to "thank the guys that wrote this".

                                And on this site, EVERY POST I MAKE, are dudes explaining things I already know.

                                rogrroger@mastodon.socialR This user is from outside of this forum
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                                #16

                                @vkc just a note to say thanks for your helpful guides. Yesterday, you taught me how to use Rsync to backup my homelab files. Sorry about these other dudes that don't seem to get it, but I personally default to your vids as I navigate the linuxverse and wish there were more like you doing this. Keep it up!

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                                • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

                                  "Why aren't more women in tech?"

                                  Look in the fucking mirror, dudes.

                                  cbleslie@hachyderm.ioC This user is from outside of this forum
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                                  #17

                                  @vkc

                                  I asked this to a co-worker once, their answer:

                                  "Because Penis."

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                                  • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

                                    "Why aren't more women in tech?"

                                    Look in the fucking mirror, dudes.

                                    kaze@meow.socialK This user is from outside of this forum
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                                    #18

                                    @vkc We boast ourselves thinking we're a better community than others.

                                    No. No we're not. 😔

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                                    • gedvondur@hulvr.comG gedvondur@hulvr.com

                                      @vkc WELL AKSHULLY

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                                      #19

                                      @gedvondur @vkc No! don't do that. it's not funny. it never was. you just add noise and make the OP angrier.

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                                      • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

                                        I wake up to comments and emails from dudes explaining to me *with absolute certainty* why I'm wrong on Linux, Commodore, or something else.

                                        I go to the store to buy parts for servers or small projects, and I'm accosted by dudes who explain to me what tools or equipment I *should* be using.

                                        In meetings where I present technical information, the Chief Dudebro Officer tells me to "thank the guys that wrote this".

                                        And on this site, EVERY POST I MAKE, are dudes explaining things I already know.

                                        annsiobhandoyle@mastodon.socialA This user is from outside of this forum
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                                        #20

                                        @vkc So sorry. It’s hard to escape that Y chromosome.

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                                        • annsiobhandoyle@mastodon.socialA annsiobhandoyle@mastodon.social

                                          @vkc So sorry. It’s hard to escape that Y chromosome.

                                          vkc@linuxmom.netV This user is from outside of this forum
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                                          #21

                                          @annsiobhandoyle no it's not. Dudes just need to do better. And it starts with calling out other dudes, not apologizing to women

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