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  • bob@beamship.mpaq.orgB bob@beamship.mpaq.org

    @mloxton @RegGuy @vkc

    I do a lot of coding for the MPAQ network. Sitting here working on other things and wondering if i could build a database/site to collect names@instances that someone sends...

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    #91

    @bob
    There is something like that afaik
    Not sure if it wound up as an app, but women were circulating a blocklist of known gremlins

    @RegGuy @vkc

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    • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

      Deleted my post about the sexual harassment I'd received on Fedi, because it was driving more sexual harassment toward me.

      Y'all want women on Fedi? Fight that shit. I can't do it for you.

      coriopsicologia@mastodon.socialC This user is from outside of this forum
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      #92

      @vkc

      I just can send you hugs, and apple pies.

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      • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

        Deleted my post about the sexual harassment I'd received on Fedi, because it was driving more sexual harassment toward me.

        Y'all want women on Fedi? Fight that shit. I can't do it for you.

        valen1@mstdn.socialV This user is from outside of this forum
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        #93

        @vkc Real men understand what consent means. Real men don't treat women like garbage. Real men fight that shit.

        Be a real man, not garbage who make women uncomfortable to be who they are.

        #FightThatShit

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        • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

          Deleted my post about the sexual harassment I'd received on Fedi, because it was driving more sexual harassment toward me.

          Y'all want women on Fedi? Fight that shit. I can't do it for you.

          64bithero@mstdn.games6 This user is from outside of this forum
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          #94

          @vkc for anyone openly harassing someone on the Fediverse please leave and never come back.

          Sorry to hear what you are dealing with

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          • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

            Deleted my post about the sexual harassment I'd received on Fedi, because it was driving more sexual harassment toward me.

            Y'all want women on Fedi? Fight that shit. I can't do it for you.

            europlus@social.europlus.zoneE This user is from outside of this forum
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            #95

            @vkc I’m sorry the grubs are still around 😞

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            • alex02@elonsucks.orgA alex02@elonsucks.org

              @vkc no it is not and quite frankly your response is quite obnoxious. If we can't talk about problems collectively on this shithole platform and only talk about one thing at a time than it becomes loose islands among the rest of the sewage, but fine whatever. Thank you for proving my point about how hostile this place is becoming with all you morons whining, but yet do this type of shit. Anyways, enjoy the block. I generally don't care.

              64bithero@mstdn.games6 This user is from outside of this forum
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              #96

              @alex02 @vkc go to Twitter go to Bluesky. She’s not asking for argument.

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              • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

                Deleted my post about the sexual harassment I'd received on Fedi, because it was driving more sexual harassment toward me.

                Y'all want women on Fedi? Fight that shit. I can't do it for you.

                claudiaxm@mstdn.caC This user is from outside of this forum
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                #97

                @vkc I’m sorry for what you went through. Hope you’re doing ok.

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                • mloxton@med-mastodon.comM mloxton@med-mastodon.com

                  @bob
                  There is something like that afaik
                  Not sure if it wound up as an app, but women were circulating a blocklist of known gremlins

                  @RegGuy @vkc

                  bob@beamship.mpaq.orgB This user is from outside of this forum
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                  #98

                  @mloxton @RegGuy @vkc

                  Been searching but no luck finding a site that would let someone "report a bad user"...

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                  • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

                    Deleted my post about the sexual harassment I'd received on Fedi, because it was driving more sexual harassment toward me.

                    Y'all want women on Fedi? Fight that shit. I can't do it for you.

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                    #99

                    @vkc
                    Gods dang it, fedi. Be better.

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                    • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

                      Deleted my post about the sexual harassment I'd received on Fedi, because it was driving more sexual harassment toward me.

                      Y'all want women on Fedi? Fight that shit. I can't do it for you.

                      travisfw@fosstodon.orgT This user is from outside of this forum
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                      #100

                      @vkc okay, how to take responsibility for fedi culture. Hmm. Sure can look for it and push back, if I happen to see it at the right time, but that seems minimal.
                      I wonder if anyone has tried setting up a honeypot for sexual harassment?

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                      • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

                        Deleted my post about the sexual harassment I'd received on Fedi, because it was driving more sexual harassment toward me.

                        Y'all want women on Fedi? Fight that shit. I can't do it for you.

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                        #101

                        @vkc

                        Sorry this happen to you. There are fighters out there but it's a tough fight and big Fediverse.

                        Fedi needs a hashtag that is a call to action to fight harassment and bigotry. Blocking or muting isn't enough. There should be a way to call in the Calvary to defend those being attacked.

                        Simply reply with #StompTheBully (or something) and the good guys show up to shut things down. Summon the guard dogs and we'll show up. As 6'5" father of a mess of daughters nothing makes me happier when my crew needs me for some "Big Dog Energy".

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                        • moondog548@nerdculture.deM moondog548@nerdculture.de

                          @haltroy
                          And just like any disease we'll keep fighting it.
                          @Orb2069 @vkc

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                          #102

                          @moondog548
                          This is the way.

                          @haltroy @vkc

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                          • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

                            Deleted my post about the sexual harassment I'd received on Fedi, because it was driving more sexual harassment toward me.

                            Y'all want women on Fedi? Fight that shit. I can't do it for you.

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                            #103

                            @vkc people want women on the fediverse? That’s news to me.

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                            • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

                              Deleted my post about the sexual harassment I'd received on Fedi, because it was driving more sexual harassment toward me.

                              Y'all want women on Fedi? Fight that shit. I can't do it for you.

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                              #104

                              @vkc Yeah it's amazing how, when you talk about arsehole behaviour on social media, arseholes arrive to demonstrate exactly what you were talking about.

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                              • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

                                Deleted my post about the sexual harassment I'd received on Fedi, because it was driving more sexual harassment toward me.

                                Y'all want women on Fedi? Fight that shit. I can't do it for you.

                                bredroll@mas.toB This user is from outside of this forum
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                                #105

                                @vkc holy shit, why do assholes feel the need to come out of the swamp! so sorry you (and everyone else) have had to undure that kind of crap 😞

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                                • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

                                  Deleted my post about the sexual harassment I'd received on Fedi, because it was driving more sexual harassment toward me.

                                  Y'all want women on Fedi? Fight that shit. I can't do it for you.

                                  david@tech.lgbtD This user is from outside of this forum
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                                  #106

                                  @vkc using the negative comments that you have gotten to add some suspends on our instance. You are better to have here than all of them combined, easily.

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                                  • cobweb@corteximplant.comC cobweb@corteximplant.com

                                    @vkc @eq there’s a sample from a Consolidated song that’s lives rent free in my head since the late 90s and it goes “It’s men who need to inform other men about what … SHIT women go through”

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                                    #107

                                    @cobweb @vkc @eq Oh, they know. They support the shit, that's the problem.

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                                    • cyberwitch@goingdark.socialC cyberwitch@goingdark.social

                                      @vkc with all the bragging about how fedi is built so it can defederate and cut out unmoderated instances, maybe they should try it sometime.

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                                      #108

                                      @cyberwitch @vkc that’s exactly what instance moderators do, all the time.

                                      But if you self-host an instance (like Veronica does) that’s on you, you’re choosing to be your only moderator so you have to moderate. Moderating sucks, and that’s not exclusive to the fediverse at all. If you don’t want to deal with that, you can always go to an instance hosted by someone else who deals with this. There is literally nothing other people can do to defederate people from someone else’s instance (there are blocklists I think tho?).

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                                      • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

                                        Deleted my post about the sexual harassment I'd received on Fedi, because it was driving more sexual harassment toward me.

                                        Y'all want women on Fedi? Fight that shit. I can't do it for you.

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                                        #109

                                        @vkc@linuxmom.net this is the reason I haven't spoken out about the NUMEROUS times it's affected me

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                                        • vkc@linuxmom.netV vkc@linuxmom.net

                                          @eq "don't let the idiots get you" - do you see how that puts it on me?

                                          I trust you mean well, but respectfully: no. The correct response is "men should fight back when they see this amongst themselves."

                                          It isn't my responsibility to "not let them get me down." It's men who need to step up and fight this battle.

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                                          #110

                                          @vkc @eq Aye

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