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  • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF This user is from outside of this forum
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    #1

    Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

    What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

    What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

    This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

    "Just block them" doesn't work.

    project1enigma@chaos.socialP nlupo@amikejo.xyzN G e_t_wright@union.placeE miname@det.socialM 22 Antworten Letzte Antwort
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    • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

      Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

      What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

      What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

      This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

      "Just block them" doesn't work.

      project1enigma@chaos.socialP This user is from outside of this forum
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      #2

      @FediTips

      Doesn't work so well with #FediAntisemitism unfortunately.

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      • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

        Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

        What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

        What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

        This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

        "Just block them" doesn't work.

        nlupo@amikejo.xyzN This user is from outside of this forum
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        #3

        @FediTips I have the privilege to block instances from my own.

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        • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

          Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

          What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

          What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

          This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

          "Just block them" doesn't work.

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          #4

          @FediTips no. I'd make alts and call them out. It doesn't work tho so idk why I bother trying 😅

          funnily enough, a few people who regularly spread lies on fediblock faved and reposted this. The irony lmao

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          • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

            Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

            What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

            What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

            This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

            "Just block them" doesn't work.

            e_t_wright@union.placeE This user is from outside of this forum
            e_t_wright@union.placeE This user is from outside of this forum
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            #5

            @FediTips recommendations?

            feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF 1 Antwort Letzte Antwort
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            • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

              Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

              What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

              What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

              This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

              "Just block them" doesn't work.

              miname@det.socialM This user is from outside of this forum
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              #6

              @FediTips Isn't that also fault of those who listen? Believing what a stranger tells them about someone whitout checking what the "person in crime" has to say, is stupid and unfair...

              feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF miname@det.socialM 2 Antworten Letzte Antwort
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              • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

                Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

                What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

                What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

                This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

                "Just block them" doesn't work.

                matty@blahaj.zoneM This user is from outside of this forum
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                #7

                @FediTips@social.growyourown.services And also strangers mansplaining about how the Fediverse is decentralise when anyone brings up about being harassed on here.

                I don't think they intend to be malicious doing it and think their being helpful but it a equivalent of reading a brochure and talking about stuff in there like it's groundbreaking to people that.. well, already have read it or know about it as it basic fact unless you're a newbie.

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                • miname@det.socialM miname@det.social

                  @FediTips Isn't that also fault of those who listen? Believing what a stranger tells them about someone whitout checking what the "person in crime" has to say, is stupid and unfair...

                  feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF This user is from outside of this forum
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                  #8

                  @Miname

                  Whoever's fault it is, the most important thing is the hateful lies need to be stopped.

                  Bigots can come up with quite convincing lies, the kind that their audience is especially receptive to.

                  Social media even lets bigots spread totally contradictory lies aimed at different audiences. For example they might post "(group X) is unemployed and living off your taxes" on one account and "(group X) is stealing your job" on another account.

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                  • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

                    Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

                    What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

                    What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

                    This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

                    "Just block them" doesn't work.

                    adrianmorales@ieji.deA This user is from outside of this forum
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                    #9

                    @FediTips I'm a Mod on my instance. I mostly deal with Vietnamese casino bots and accounts, though. 🤷‍♂️

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                    • e_t_wright@union.placeE e_t_wright@union.place

                      @FediTips recommendations?

                      feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF This user is from outside of this forum
                      feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF This user is from outside of this forum
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                      #10

                      @e_t_wright

                      Recommendation is that server admins refuse to host bigots, and report bigotry when they see it on other servers.

                      If a server admin knowingly refuses to remove a bigot despite clear reports, admins might consider defederating that server.

                      There are also readymade blocklists that can help with pre-blocking the worst servers, more info for server admins at https://fedi.tips/importing-ready-made-server-blocklists-on-mastodon/

                      energetic_nova@mastodon.socialE itzpingcat@sakurajima.moeI 2 Antworten Letzte Antwort
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                      • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

                        Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

                        What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

                        What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

                        This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

                        "Just block them" doesn't work.

                        agowa338@chaos.socialA This user is from outside of this forum
                        agowa338@chaos.socialA This user is from outside of this forum
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                        #11

                        @FediTips
                        Not just "vulnerable groups"...

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                        • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

                          Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

                          What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

                          What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

                          This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

                          "Just block them" doesn't work.

                          djwfyi@vmst.ioD This user is from outside of this forum
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                          #12

                          @FediTips

                          Yes.

                          But also with the recognition that the system working this way is ripe for abuse and pile ons. It's easy for a bad actor to use the system to target someone they simply don't like or actively want to harm.

                          So mods, admins, and even individuals need to use their own wits and sense and not take a demand at face value. "Doing your own research" is fraught with pitfalls if its own, so it's not that simple, either.

                          There ARE accounts that simply shouldn't be hosted anywhere. There are also demands for a fediblock that are nothing but targeted abuse.

                          We have to deal with both and be wise to both.

                          feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF ahltorp@mastodon.nuA 2 Antworten Letzte Antwort
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                          • project1enigma@chaos.socialP project1enigma@chaos.social

                            @FediTips

                            Doesn't work so well with #FediAntisemitism unfortunately.

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                            #13

                            @project1enigma@chaos.social @FediTips@social.growyourown.services why?

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                            • djwfyi@vmst.ioD djwfyi@vmst.io

                              @FediTips

                              Yes.

                              But also with the recognition that the system working this way is ripe for abuse and pile ons. It's easy for a bad actor to use the system to target someone they simply don't like or actively want to harm.

                              So mods, admins, and even individuals need to use their own wits and sense and not take a demand at face value. "Doing your own research" is fraught with pitfalls if its own, so it's not that simple, either.

                              There ARE accounts that simply shouldn't be hosted anywhere. There are also demands for a fediblock that are nothing but targeted abuse.

                              We have to deal with both and be wise to both.

                              feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF This user is from outside of this forum
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                              #14

                              @djwfyi

                              Yup, agreed, it's not an easy thing for admins, they do need to rely on their judgement a lot.

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                              • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

                                Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

                                What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

                                What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

                                This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

                                "Just block them" doesn't work.

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                                #15

                                @FediTips
                                Thats not only an issue with individual attacks but also with disinfo. People will spread lies, if you confront them, they block you and just go on.

                                The same happens in the real world. There you might try to sue them but ultimately, there is no escape from liars and bad actors. We need to take away the reason for this by eliminating the oppressive system.

                                Frantz Fanon wrote about this in wretched of the earth. Oppression leads to intra group violence.

                                Otherwise i suggest bluesky

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                                • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

                                  Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

                                  What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

                                  What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

                                  This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

                                  "Just block them" doesn't work.

                                  em0nm4stodon@infosec.exchangeE This user is from outside of this forum
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                                  #16

                                  @FediTips @gerrymcgovern

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                                  • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

                                    Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

                                    What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

                                    What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

                                    This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

                                    "Just block them" doesn't work.

                                    klefstadmyr@social.vivaldi.netK This user is from outside of this forum
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                                    #17

                                    @FediTips So ... report them?

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                                    • tauon@possum.cityT tauon@possum.city

                                      @project1enigma@chaos.social @FediTips@social.growyourown.services why?

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                                      #18

                                      @tauon @FediTips

                                      Good question. Few instances have defederated the todon instances or kolektiva for example.

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                                      • project1enigma@chaos.socialP project1enigma@chaos.social

                                        @tauon @FediTips

                                        Good question. Few instances have defederated the todon instances or kolektiva for example.

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                                        #19

                                        @tauon @FediTips

                                        Calling out antisemitism too "loudly" actually gave *me* a "strike" by the moderation of a previous instance I was. (And someone else got worse on the same instance, I preempted that by moving out quickly.)

                                        Was quite a bit DARVO. "Harassment" my ass, but antisemitism itself was apparently no big deal.

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                                        • klefstadmyr@social.vivaldi.netK klefstadmyr@social.vivaldi.net

                                          @FediTips So ... report them?

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                                          #20

                                          @klefstadmyr@vivaldi.net @FediTips@social.growyourown.services to who

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