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  • e_t_wright@union.placeE e_t_wright@union.place

    @FediTips recommendations?

    feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF This user is from outside of this forum
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    #10

    @e_t_wright

    Recommendation is that server admins refuse to host bigots, and report bigotry when they see it on other servers.

    If a server admin knowingly refuses to remove a bigot despite clear reports, admins might consider defederating that server.

    There are also readymade blocklists that can help with pre-blocking the worst servers, more info for server admins at https://fedi.tips/importing-ready-made-server-blocklists-on-mastodon/

    energetic_nova@mastodon.socialE itzpingcat@sakurajima.moeI 2 Antworten Letzte Antwort
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    • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

      Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

      What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

      What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

      This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

      "Just block them" doesn't work.

      agowa338@chaos.socialA This user is from outside of this forum
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      #11

      @FediTips
      Not just "vulnerable groups"...

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      • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

        Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

        What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

        What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

        This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

        "Just block them" doesn't work.

        djwfyi@vmst.ioD This user is from outside of this forum
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        #12

        @FediTips

        Yes.

        But also with the recognition that the system working this way is ripe for abuse and pile ons. It's easy for a bad actor to use the system to target someone they simply don't like or actively want to harm.

        So mods, admins, and even individuals need to use their own wits and sense and not take a demand at face value. "Doing your own research" is fraught with pitfalls if its own, so it's not that simple, either.

        There ARE accounts that simply shouldn't be hosted anywhere. There are also demands for a fediblock that are nothing but targeted abuse.

        We have to deal with both and be wise to both.

        feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF ahltorp@mastodon.nuA 2 Antworten Letzte Antwort
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        • project1enigma@chaos.socialP project1enigma@chaos.social

          @FediTips

          Doesn't work so well with #FediAntisemitism unfortunately.

          tauon@possum.cityT This user is from outside of this forum
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          #13

          @project1enigma@chaos.social @FediTips@social.growyourown.services why?

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          • djwfyi@vmst.ioD djwfyi@vmst.io

            @FediTips

            Yes.

            But also with the recognition that the system working this way is ripe for abuse and pile ons. It's easy for a bad actor to use the system to target someone they simply don't like or actively want to harm.

            So mods, admins, and even individuals need to use their own wits and sense and not take a demand at face value. "Doing your own research" is fraught with pitfalls if its own, so it's not that simple, either.

            There ARE accounts that simply shouldn't be hosted anywhere. There are also demands for a fediblock that are nothing but targeted abuse.

            We have to deal with both and be wise to both.

            feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF This user is from outside of this forum
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            #14

            @djwfyi

            Yup, agreed, it's not an easy thing for admins, they do need to rely on their judgement a lot.

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            • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

              Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

              What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

              What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

              This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

              "Just block them" doesn't work.

              haui@mastodon.giftedmc.comH This user is from outside of this forum
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              #15

              @FediTips
              Thats not only an issue with individual attacks but also with disinfo. People will spread lies, if you confront them, they block you and just go on.

              The same happens in the real world. There you might try to sue them but ultimately, there is no escape from liars and bad actors. We need to take away the reason for this by eliminating the oppressive system.

              Frantz Fanon wrote about this in wretched of the earth. Oppression leads to intra group violence.

              Otherwise i suggest bluesky

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              • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

                Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

                What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

                What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

                This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

                "Just block them" doesn't work.

                em0nm4stodon@infosec.exchangeE This user is from outside of this forum
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                #16

                @FediTips @gerrymcgovern

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                • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

                  Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

                  What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

                  What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

                  This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

                  "Just block them" doesn't work.

                  klefstadmyr@social.vivaldi.netK This user is from outside of this forum
                  klefstadmyr@social.vivaldi.netK This user is from outside of this forum
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                  #17

                  @FediTips So ... report them?

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                  • tauon@possum.cityT tauon@possum.city

                    @project1enigma@chaos.social @FediTips@social.growyourown.services why?

                    project1enigma@chaos.socialP This user is from outside of this forum
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                    #18

                    @tauon @FediTips

                    Good question. Few instances have defederated the todon instances or kolektiva for example.

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                    • project1enigma@chaos.socialP project1enigma@chaos.social

                      @tauon @FediTips

                      Good question. Few instances have defederated the todon instances or kolektiva for example.

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                      #19

                      @tauon @FediTips

                      Calling out antisemitism too "loudly" actually gave *me* a "strike" by the moderation of a previous instance I was. (And someone else got worse on the same instance, I preempted that by moving out quickly.)

                      Was quite a bit DARVO. "Harassment" my ass, but antisemitism itself was apparently no big deal.

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                      • klefstadmyr@social.vivaldi.netK klefstadmyr@social.vivaldi.net

                        @FediTips So ... report them?

                        tauon@possum.cityT This user is from outside of this forum
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                        #20

                        @klefstadmyr@vivaldi.net @FediTips@social.growyourown.services to who

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                        • tauon@possum.cityT tauon@possum.city

                          @klefstadmyr@vivaldi.net @FediTips@social.growyourown.services to who

                          klefstadmyr@social.vivaldi.netK This user is from outside of this forum
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                          #21

                          @tauon @FediTips To the server they live on?

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                          • miname@det.socialM miname@det.social

                            @FediTips Isn't that also fault of those who listen? Believing what a stranger tells them about someone whitout checking what the "person in crime" has to say, is stupid and unfair...

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                            #22

                            @FediTips yeah but if the people wouldn't simply believe the "liar" so easily, everything would be fine...

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                            • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

                              Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

                              What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

                              What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

                              This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

                              "Just block them" doesn't work.

                              linux@mivatter.comL This user is from outside of this forum
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                              #23
                              @FediTips@social.growyourown.services

                              I have experienced this first hand, and it absolutely sucks. It is even worse when you have the facts and the proof to back it up, but the other person has the better story. The court of public opinion can be very unfair.
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                              • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

                                Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

                                What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

                                What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

                                This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

                                "Just block them" doesn't work.

                                alex@pawb.funA This user is from outside of this forum
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                                #24

                                @FediTips No, it really doesn't.

                                (I could tell you stories of being on the receiving end [not on here], but I won't.)

                                People are gonna do whatever they want if they believe they're justified in doing it. They don't think 'maybe I shouldn't do this because I'd be really upset it if it was done to me'. (that would imply empathy where it doesn't exist)

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                                • haui@mastodon.giftedmc.comH haui@mastodon.giftedmc.com

                                  @FediTips
                                  Thats not only an issue with individual attacks but also with disinfo. People will spread lies, if you confront them, they block you and just go on.

                                  The same happens in the real world. There you might try to sue them but ultimately, there is no escape from liars and bad actors. We need to take away the reason for this by eliminating the oppressive system.

                                  Frantz Fanon wrote about this in wretched of the earth. Oppression leads to intra group violence.

                                  Otherwise i suggest bluesky

                                  alex@pawb.funA This user is from outside of this forum
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                                  #25

                                  @haui @FediTips

                                  Bluesky as in 'the place that welcomes transphobes [Jesse Singal comes to mind, see: the 'waffles' controversy where the CEO refuses to ban him] and ICE"? That Bluesky? You sure about that?

                                  We have to make our own spaces.
                                  We can't trust corpo social media to have our best interests in mind.

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                                  • agowa338@chaos.socialA agowa338@chaos.social

                                    @FediTips
                                    Not just "vulnerable groups"...

                                    moz@fosstodon.orgM This user is from outside of this forum
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                                    #26

                                    @agowa338 @FediTips in this environment *everyone* is vulnerable. But some are more vulnerable than others.

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                                    • moz@fosstodon.orgM moz@fosstodon.org

                                      @agowa338 @FediTips in this environment *everyone* is vulnerable. But some are more vulnerable than others.

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                                      #27

                                      @moz @FediTips

                                      sad but true...

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                                      • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

                                        Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

                                        What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

                                        What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

                                        This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

                                        "Just block them" doesn't work.

                                        dobetterinstitute@twit.socialD This user is from outside of this forum
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                                        #28

                                        @FediTips If you'd moderate your local club meeting moderate your mastodon servers. Period.

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                                        • klefstadmyr@social.vivaldi.netK klefstadmyr@social.vivaldi.net

                                          @tauon @FediTips To the server they live on?

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                                          #29

                                          @klefstadmyr@vivaldi.net @FediTips@social.growyourown.services what if they just say 'nah' though

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