@anyia All of the names I know for you fit you so well. ️@Willow@chaosfem.tw

@Willow My first name was given, at first. It always resonated and felt like me, especially when I learned it might be suitable for either gender.

I only took it recently, though—realizing I might be able to make it mine, and shape it into something more than who I was before.

My last name isn't one I'm attached to. I opted not to take my wife's, which is arguably better, but I haven't decided on a more fitting one just yet. For now, a placeholder, and a sullen reminder of the generational trauma I'm working to cast off.