@dee Last week I went to a computer security conference in Germany attended by ~16k people. Over the years this conference has become more explicit in its acceptance of queerness, and these days they replace all the restroom signs in the venue with "all gender" signs, and post this on every stall door.

The result: it's such a joyous place to be! I've never seen so many light-up cat ear headbands And I'm now convinced that trans women rule the computer security industry.