@alexglow I like these because they look like nice earrings. Not just like an sd card on a hook. I saw em and thought “oh my wife would probably wear those”

@vkc A good friend of mine - and a phenomenal software engineer - just started grad school to switch to a career outside of tech. Due in large part to the exact type of thing you're describing.

I really hate to see it, but I also can't bring myself to tell her to "just stick it out." But it is our loss as an industry.

We - meaning men, especially us CIS white guys - need to be proactive in fighting this.