Heya Fedi, I'm looking for an queer/trans/autism-and-artist-friendly instance (that part's probably easy) for a cool dude who is into everything fan culture in art from brony to eldritch horror.

Heya Fedi, I'm looking for an queer/trans/autism-and-artist-friendly instance (that part's probably easy) for a cool dude who is into everything fan culture in art from brony to eldritch horror. He is doing tattoo work and is pretty much the best texture artist I know (also still upset over the downfall of tumblr).
He is considering joining the fediverse and I realized I have no real idea which instance might be a good fit, if any.

#fedihelp