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She stopped me and told me how awful it is to hear. Not just to hear her mother speaking about herself like that, but because this is how habits are built and passed on.
@kristiedegaris And none of that can be seen in the photo. We are our own worst critics.
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My daughter took this photograph of me today, quickly, in my bedroom. We swept the mess off the table, moved the dirty clothes off the chair and tried to make things look presentable, including me.
I complained the entire time about how I looked. The light wasn’t good, my hair was greasy, I’m 42 on Sunday, I want to lose weight, I’m in perimenopause. But this is something I do. Saying it out loud has become a habit.
@kristiedegaris It's a beautiful photograph!
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My daughter took this photograph of me today, quickly, in my bedroom. We swept the mess off the table, moved the dirty clothes off the chair and tried to make things look presentable, including me.
I complained the entire time about how I looked. The light wasn’t good, my hair was greasy, I’m 42 on Sunday, I want to lose weight, I’m in perimenopause. But this is something I do. Saying it out loud has become a habit.
@kristiedegaris Former photographer, this is a top notch photo. The Rembrandt lighting, the framing, the expression and pose, and that jacket texture!
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@kristiedegaris It's a good photo. Despite all the above, you look relaxed and comfortable.
My daughter (now 18, at uni) once told me to not worry about my weight/hair/height/whatever it was I was moaning about, because I was still her dad regardless. That made me quiet and thoughtful for quite a while.
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My daughter took this photograph of me today, quickly, in my bedroom. We swept the mess off the table, moved the dirty clothes off the chair and tried to make things look presentable, including me.
I complained the entire time about how I looked. The light wasn’t good, my hair was greasy, I’m 42 on Sunday, I want to lose weight, I’m in perimenopause. But this is something I do. Saying it out loud has become a habit.
@kristiedegaris terrific photo
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My daughter took this photograph of me today, quickly, in my bedroom. We swept the mess off the table, moved the dirty clothes off the chair and tried to make things look presentable, including me.
I complained the entire time about how I looked. The light wasn’t good, my hair was greasy, I’m 42 on Sunday, I want to lose weight, I’m in perimenopause. But this is something I do. Saying it out loud has become a habit.
@kristiedegaris well your daughter is a brilliant photographer, picked a very good subject/model (did you sign a release form
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My daughter took this photograph of me today, quickly, in my bedroom. We swept the mess off the table, moved the dirty clothes off the chair and tried to make things look presentable, including me.
I complained the entire time about how I looked. The light wasn’t good, my hair was greasy, I’m 42 on Sunday, I want to lose weight, I’m in perimenopause. But this is something I do. Saying it out loud has become a habit.
@kristiedegaris looks pretty good to me and my housemates
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Your daughter is very talented. The sharpness/blurring in the photo is just right. The shadows and highlights are perfect for natural lighting without any tricks. The frame and posture are impressive.
I see a really beautiful, self-confident middle-aged woman who hasn't been photoshopped – and there's really no need to.
And I'm already looking forward to your book – it's next in line on my reading list.
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@kristiedegaris I've said this before and I may say it again: your daughter is great at taking photographs
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My daughter took this photograph of me today, quickly, in my bedroom. We swept the mess off the table, moved the dirty clothes off the chair and tried to make things look presentable, including me.
I complained the entire time about how I looked. The light wasn’t good, my hair was greasy, I’m 42 on Sunday, I want to lose weight, I’m in perimenopause. But this is something I do. Saying it out loud has become a habit.
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Wonderful photo, wonderful daughter. I guess she is that way partly because of you.
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@kristiedegaris Your daughter is talented, it's a good photograph. And your forearms tell their own story, that this is a person who does in fact work with stone.
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@kristiedegaris Your daughter is talented, it's a good photograph. And your forearms tell their own story, that this is a person who does in fact work with stone.
@acsawdey Haha. They do indeed look hulking in this photo but honestly, it's the light. Not so irl I'm afraid.
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My daughter took this photograph of me today, quickly, in my bedroom. We swept the mess off the table, moved the dirty clothes off the chair and tried to make things look presentable, including me.
I complained the entire time about how I looked. The light wasn’t good, my hair was greasy, I’m 42 on Sunday, I want to lose weight, I’m in perimenopause. But this is something I do. Saying it out loud has become a habit.
@kristiedegaris You look lovely.
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My daughter took this photograph of me today, quickly, in my bedroom. We swept the mess off the table, moved the dirty clothes off the chair and tried to make things look presentable, including me.
I complained the entire time about how I looked. The light wasn’t good, my hair was greasy, I’m 42 on Sunday, I want to lose weight, I’m in perimenopause. But this is something I do. Saying it out loud has become a habit.
@kristiedegaris You look great because you look like YOU!
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@kristiedegaris Upside: your daughter, in her awareness of what you were doing, seems to be free of some of the burdens you carry.
Nice pic.
Cheeky snaps. 
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My daughter took this photograph of me today, quickly, in my bedroom. We swept the mess off the table, moved the dirty clothes off the chair and tried to make things look presentable, including me.
I complained the entire time about how I looked. The light wasn’t good, my hair was greasy, I’m 42 on Sunday, I want to lose weight, I’m in perimenopause. But this is something I do. Saying it out loud has become a habit.
@kristiedegaris But the light is good. The photo is good. The book is one you wrote?
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@kristiedegaris But the light is good. The photo is good. The book is one you wrote?
@NicelyManifest I agree, the brain can skew things so much, and yes, I wrote the book. I needed a photo for a wee interview I am doing about being a writer, and my daughter kindly offered to take one for me.
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@kristiedegaris Upside: your daughter, in her awareness of what you were doing, seems to be free of some of the burdens you carry.
Nice pic.
Cheeky snaps. @ColesStreetPothole @kristiedegaris
Yes! It's clear your daughter has a lot of emotional maturity and awareness.The photograph looks fantastic and so do yo!
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And a great image @kristiedegaris
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